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Taking another’s punishment - 7/5/2004 10:57:50 AM

Shyguy21040

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I’m a switch that writes female domination / male submission stories. In my stories, I sometimes have the domme punish the sub for something someone else did or didn’t do. I wondered if anyone else enjoys this as a part of his or her submission.

As a dominant or top, I would not want to punish my sub for something she didn’t do or wasn’t responsible for. However, as a bottom, I find it erotic and arousing to be punished for something I didn’t do. Also, somewhat related, to be commanded to do something which contradicts an earlier command, and to be punished no matter how I respond.

Would it make a difference if it were expected? If it was something you’d discussed before?

Would you enjoy being made responsible for someone else’s actions or lack thereof?

In my stories, the surprise of the punishment is part of the excitement. In real life, I can see and understand that surprise can break the trust between a dom/domme and sub.

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RE: Taking another’s punishment - 7/5/2004 12:06:16 PM

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quote:

I’m a switch that writes female domination / male submission stories. In my stories, I sometimes have the domme punish the sub for something someone else did or didn’t do. I wondered if anyone else enjoys this as a part of his or her submission.

As a dominant or top, I would not want to punish my sub for something she didn’t do or wasn’t responsible for. However, as a bottom, I find it erotic and arousing to be punished for something I didn’t do. Also, somewhat related, to be commanded to do something which contradicts an earlier command, and to be punished no matter how I respond.

Would it make a difference if it were expected? If it was something you’d discussed before?

Would you enjoy being made responsible for someone else’s actions or lack thereof?

In my stories, the surprise of the punishment is part of the excitement. In real life, I can see and understand that surprise can break the trust between a dom/domme and sub.

I hate to wuss out, but it depends. If she knows it is impossible and it is "play" disguised as punishment, cool. If not, I get no extra kick submitting to a moron. (If she says put the book on the left end table and then says put the book on the right end table and is too stupid to see the conflict, yes, she's a moron. If she knows and the punishment is really play, cool!

It is like being in only a FemDom CD and being told I have to be chaste for a year when we both know I'll never make it.)

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RE: Taking another’s punishment - 7/5/2004 12:22:32 PM

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Shyguy21040
within My brood
I have two slaves
whom sit above
the other slaves
as first boy and girl
and they recieve
punishments as well
as the offender when
punishment is needed.
The first gurl or boy
are responcible to see
that the other less experianced
slaves are learning
what they need to and
are following rules and
proticals set forth hence
when a slave below
them does wrong they to
get punished for the slaves
wrong doing so that they
will be more astute to their
positions and those whom
they are being punished for
will know that others will
be watching them closer
in the future for possible
wrong doing again. ~smiles~

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RE: Taking another’s punishment - 7/5/2004 2:38:48 PM

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I think i would consider it unfair to be punished for something someone else did unless it were someone whose actions i was responsible for as in MistressDread's situation, or if it were part of a scene where i knew that could happen. I would lose some of my trust in my Dom if i were randomly punished, even if i enjoyed it. JMHO.

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RE: Taking another’s punishment - 7/5/2004 4:48:10 PM

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There is a married Dom/sub couple that i have played with once before. W/we still chat and He often says He's going to spank me. (if He ever gets around to giving me all those piled up promised swats, i won't be about to sit for a week.) He gave me an off the cuff invitation to their house for last Saturday. i thought He was kidding plus my period started so i messaged His wife and told her i couldn't be there. Then she tells me i'm in trouble with Him because i never responded. MY MISTAKE. i ASSUMED that to tell her was to tell Him. He said He was going to spank both of us and then make her thank me for it. i asked Him not to spank her since it was my mistake. But it looks like HE will spank us both if He gets the chance. Now, i feel guilty about getting her into trouble.

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RE: Taking another’s punishment - 7/5/2004 7:55:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: proudsub

I would lose some of my trust in my Dom if i were randomly punished, even if i enjoyed it. JMHO.

My experience is different. Master can, and does, punish me for no darn good reason, just because he wants to. There is no trust lost. I'm there to service. He doesn't have to justify his behavior to me. Since I'm not bratty on purpose, this punishment is a lot easier for me to take than punishment because of something I've done wrong, and believe me, he clearly differentiates between them. lol

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RE: Taking another’s punishment - 7/5/2004 8:24:37 PM

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he clearly differentiates between them. lol

If he differentiates i wouldn't consider it punishment. JMHO

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RE: Taking another’s punishment - 7/5/2004 8:40:19 PM

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I don't care for punishment whether I have messed up or not. I better damn well not get punished for something I had no control over either. Abuse walks a very fine line.
When punished for no good reason, that is plain and simple an abuser. They really should'nt be hiding behind the lifestyle. That is the principal reason why the lifestyle has such a bad name.

I'm extremely happy to hear your stories are merely fiction. Real life the person would definately have red flags flying all over themselves.

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RE: Taking another’s punishment - 7/6/2004 5:15:14 PM

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My Dom has a new second slave and it is the same as someone described before: when she screws up we both get punished because I am supposed to teach her

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