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Self Bondage - 10/2/2004 10:14:16 AM

love2bind

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Are there any peole on this site that are fmela that are interested or curious about self bondgae or better yet pratice it. Looking to exchange ideas with each other and possibly teach each othe a new trick.

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RE: Self Bondage - 10/24/2004 3:37:59 AM

suni

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well being that i once bound myself and could not get loose old master taught me sum things about this so i could safely bind myself and get free .

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RE: Self Bondage - 10/25/2004 1:41:32 AM

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I think, I will keep my eye's on this thread! Sounds fun and interesting.

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RE: Self Bondage - 10/25/2004 12:37:38 PM

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well, i am a male BUT....

i dont have a partner and thus no ties for me! heh. you need to be extremely careful when doing this (you will hear it over and over from others) it can be dangerous, even fatal. i tend to use cuffs more than rope because there is a reduced chance of injury.

However a little method i do to avoid this is when i have a long period of time... i freeze a key in ice and lock myself in my dogs cage (shes a little beagle, thank goodness i am small) voila i am set for a few hours. i also cuff and gag myself. ive tried blindfolding too, but it doesnt work well, you can force it off.. so i just turn the lights off. make sure you tie a string to the key, and then tie the other end tot he cage to make sure its near you, cause its hard to wiggle the whole cage!

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RE: Self Bondage - 10/28/2004 12:58:32 PM

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i've been practicing self-bondage since i was 12 or 13 or so! i think it has an incredible rush to it...that last moment before you secure the last bond is priceless.

ice is a great way to keep your key/knife/release device out of reach for an undetermined period of time. i usually like to add something uncomfortable to make the time go by unbearably slow...harsh gagging, very high heels that i have to stand in, nipple clamps, etc.

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RE: Self Bondage - 10/28/2004 8:08:28 PM

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The video JayDee's Bondage Notebook - I forget if it is volume I or II - has a sequence of Kiri Kelly doing self bondage to surprise her master when he gets home - you might get some tips from that, although I would mayhap suggest foregoing the locking hands behind back in handcuffs after bobybinding, gagging, and blindfolding yourself (unless you are really good at hopping around trying to find the key and unlocking the cuffs blindly behind your back)

Just my tuppence.

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RE: Self Bondage - 10/28/2004 9:46:28 PM

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i have never had a interest in self bondage. Had a Dom one time want me to do self bondage on Cam for Him. *shakes head*

i can see doing self bondage to surprize a Dom/Master/Domme but i don't get the rush from doing it to myself with noone coming over to "play" with me all tied up! Guess for me i am more into the being Dominated thing *grins* and not just being helpless.

Good luck with it though hope you get some good ideas!

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RE: Self Bondage - 10/29/2004 10:15:42 AM

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i can see doing self bondage to surprize a Dom/Master/Domme but i don't get the rush from doing it to myself with noone coming over to "play" with me all tied up!

Aww, just say the word, Jenn; I'd be more than happy to stumble upon a bound 'n' gagged damsel in distress. I'm young, but that just means my evil mind is more than fertile. ;)

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RE: Self Bondage - 10/29/2004 1:44:26 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: subbiejenn

i have never had a interest in self bondage. Had a Dom one time want me to do self bondage on Cam for Him. *shakes head*

i can see doing self bondage to surprize a Dom/Master/Domme but i don't get the rush from doing it to myself with noone coming over to "play" with me all tied up! Guess for me i am more into the being Dominated thing *grins* and not just being helpless.

Good luck with it though hope you get some good ideas!

I agree jenn, self bondage is definitely not as exciting as real play with a partner. I have to admit though, that through puberty and early into my 20's, self bondage was often the only form of expression I had relating to bdsm so I often partook. As the years roll on and with real life play now in my psyche, the practise has waned for me. Strangely enough though, I make it a habit of sleeping in a collar so I suppose in that respect it's still with me. For me, i find sleeping in a collar helps mindset by reminding me through the night of who and what I am. It's a bit of a security blanket I guess.

.... now i'm rambling... :)

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RE: Self Bondage - 11/4/2004 7:00:21 PM

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WELLLLLLLLLLL, I'm not a switch, but I will share a bit of 'self bondage' that happened to Me once...

As I've said before, I try everything I buy on Myself first to be certain it's safe.

One fine spring day I found (at a wonderful discount) a fabulous pair of Smith & Wesson handcuffs. Blue steel, they were the Kryptonite sub-brand and they shone in the case. I grabbed them. So what if there was only one key? I had another pair of keys at home!

Hone I went and began practising the one-handed cuff maneuver. Slap the open cuff against the wrist and *zing* the ratchet slides closed. Unlock, try again, unlock, try again I was getting My technique down when I stuck the tiny key into the lock and it turned VERY easily...

Too easily... The bit had broken off in the lock! There I was with a LAPD issue handcuff locked to My wrist and a broken key! Crap! But there WERE those other keys!

I hied Myself to My toybag for My other handcuff key. It was as cheap Taiwanese knockoff and... you guessed it... the key was twice the size of the S&W key. Uh - ohhhhhhhhh! What to do? I tried sliding my hand free. Nope. Nothing doing. Hairpin! Fugeddaboudit! Nothing! Wait! The hotel down the block! Security ought to have cuffs ... and keys!

Off I sped, one opened cuff dangling, the other clamped to My wrist, to the Hollywood Holiday Inn on Highland Blvd. I went in and found the security guard. "Could you unlock these? I was... uh... fooling around and..." I said, holding up My cuffed hand. "Sure!" the guard said brightly and reached into his belt... producing the very same cheap knockoff key that wouldn't fit the lock. DAMN! What to do NOW? I walked to Hollywood Blvd. Surely there would be a cop around...

Yep. there was one, all right. He pulled over his motorcycle as I beckoned him. "Uh... officer, I have a problem..." I held up My cuffed wrist expecting a grin and prompt unlocking. The LAPD have seen *everything*.

Immediately, he grabbed the other end, dangling free, and locked it to the frame of his cycle! WHAT?!! He picked up his radio and spoke into it:
"This is Officer Smith requesting wants and warrants on possible vacated suspect, female. one handcuff, auburn hair, hazel eyes, five foot two, medium build, Hollywood and Las Palmas."

Vacated SUSPECT!?! Suddenly, everything was getting FAR too real!

"No, uh... heh heh... Officer you don't understand... I... uh...." (Oh shit, oh shit oh shit, what have I *done*?!) "Y'see, I'm a... uh... a Dominant... into S&M and..." (Damn, this sounds fishy even to ME! Now they're putting my particulars out on the air! I can hear his cycle radio!) "You want to see My identification? Sure, here it is! See? Uh...." (With MY luck some prostitute who looks JUST like Me has gotten loose and...Ohhhh MAN!) "Heh heh! I've never even gotten a traffic ticket! Really, I'm just a harmless lovable fuzzball! Really, Officer, I'm...." As I fidgeted and tried to look innocent, he casually unsnapped his holster. Ohhhh, nooooooo!

Fortunately, before I'd expended 30% of my body weight in cold sweat, the radio crackled to life and the officer was told that nobody fitting My description had been reported escaping. He laughed at Me (I swear, I lost two inches in height just standing there!) and reached for his handcuff key. In two seconds he had the cuffs off and handed them back to Me.
"Mistress, huh?" he said and slowly removed his helmet.

He was a submissive I'd seen around at parties!

Why ME, Lord?

To his credit, he never told anyone... or at least nobody ever told Me if he did. The bastard had *recognised* Me from the beginning, but was playing with My head!

To this day, I made CERTAIN I have THREE keys for every pair of cuffs I buy.

Lady Sonelle

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RE: Self Bondage - 11/4/2004 8:11:57 PM

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quote:

but I will share a bit of 'self bondage' that happened to Me once...

ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: Self Bondage - 11/5/2004 1:32:45 AM

westside

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so what id we learn here?

Get spare keys!

You can buy extras from police supply shops or on-line

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RE: Self Bondage - 11/27/2004 5:10:43 PM

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Lady Sonelle That was a beautiful story (I hope someone collects these together). I myself have purchased a reproduction set of 'antique' cuffs from Ebay. The lock is very different--a sort of screw--you screw one cuff closed and then screw the other--and the screw stays in the last cuff.

It doesn't sound too bad for self-bondage but this set is so heavy and crude looking it scares ME a little. I got it for people wanting to play at 'ancient torture' games.

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RE: Self Bondage - 11/28/2005 5:43:24 PM

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I am pretty efficient at self bondage but i tend to focus towards visually stimulating rope bondage rather than imobilization. I'd be more than happy to give you a few pointers.
And I have bound and gagged myself while waiting for my partner to return from work. He was very happy to find me all tied up and waiting!

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RE: Self Bondage - 11/28/2005 8:42:18 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: love2bind

Are there any peole on this site that are fmela that are interested or curious about self bondgae or better yet pratice it. Looking to exchange ideas with each other and possibly teach each othe a new trick.

i've often put myself in bondage with my cuffs and chain and/or rope. i love the feel of the cuffs (leather kind) on my wrists and ankles and they just make me feel more "me." they feel like they were a part of me left off at birth, in a way. i've used chain and other things to attach them to, and even just worn them by themselves. while they can be locked, i just use the ring and hasp, and don't lock them. i've never taken them off when i had them on with a dominant, as i don't believe in doing what i'm not supposed to do. so for me, i never needed a symbolic lock (so far anyway). with practice, i can get in and out of my cuffs very quickly should the need arise.

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RE: Self Bondage - 11/28/2005 8:43:02 PM

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thank you for the story. i can just see that in the lapd!

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RE: Self Bondage - 11/28/2005 9:56:45 PM

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I've found a few ppl who just sleep better in a pair of cuffs or some chain holding them down. It make them feel safe, secure, and unable to fall out of the bed. Some people remember as a kid how there parents would tuck them in at night or securely fasion there seatbelts in the car. Though you where in a form of secured bondage, you could still take off your covers and push the release of the seat belt. Some people find that self binding themselves gives back a portion of that secure feeling that they once had as children. It's a secure tight feeling that can be released when needed.

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RE: Self Bondage - 11/30/2005 1:50:52 AM

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It's alot more than that if you can stomach it. If you're up to the whole country of Japan it shouldn't be a problem, if you'd said Tokyo though.........

Reality is the self bondage is way more intense because there is NOBODY to help you if things go wrong. Be surprised how well you can hear, drug deals blocks away and such. Hmmm, they gonna do a driveby ?

If you want details, I'll provide them in a seperate thread. For now suffice it to say that strict selfbondage is more of an experience than even being dominated because you are alone.

Smoke that.

T

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RE: Self Bondage - 11/30/2005 10:44:08 AM

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If you want details, I'll provide them in a seperate thread. For now suffice it to say that strict selfbondage is more of an experience than even being dominated because you are alone.

Smoke that.

No details needed. Smoked it this mourning using Hickory Wood and Charcol along with my baby back ribs. So put the pipe down and step away from the computer.

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RE: Self Bondage - 11/30/2005 1:22:06 PM

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