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Seeking some information - 7/18/2005 1:11:12 PM

chainedraven

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Are there any couples on collarme that are male/male/female? I recently had three friends who have been together for about 3 years do a sort of ceremony *handfasting if you will...but not lol* and I was just wanting to hear from some other people in the lifestyle and this particular sort of poly relationship.

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RE: Seeking some information - 7/18/2005 1:20:06 PM

EmeraldSlave2

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Hmm my family at this point is made up of 4 females and 3 males who form a solid core.

I am close with a female dominant/2 male submissive relationship who also had a marriage/handfasting and are raising a child together in the same house.

Go ahead, ask questions!

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RE: Seeking some information - 7/18/2005 1:23:05 PM

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Ravenna has that type of dynamic. Search her user name in this forum for some wonder accounts :)

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RE: Seeking some information - 7/18/2005 1:47:02 PM

chainedraven

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Thank you both so much. Emerald do you mind if I private message you?

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RE: Seeking some information - 7/18/2005 2:27:09 PM

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Go for it.

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RE: Seeking some information - 7/18/2005 11:37:34 PM

MsPurrmeow

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I have two male partners. We've been PolyFi for nearly a decade. (mFm)

Couple = 2
Trouple = 3

The plural of Spouse is Spice!

:-)

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RE: Seeking some information - 7/19/2005 12:55:30 AM

ravenna

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Hi, did i hear my name mentioned? ;-) Thanks, stormsfate, it's lovely to be remembered, but well, things have evolved. i'm sad to report the dual ownership chapter of my life ended this month, when my "senior" owner bought out my "junior" owner, so i am now the sole and exclusive property once again of my master Michelangelo. i adored belonging to both of the men i love, they're best friends, the chemistry between the three of us is amazing, and i've belonged to one or both of them for most of my adult life (since i was 19, unofficially, and 22, officially, when i finally earned my first collar), so it worked so smoothly and deeply for the three of us, it was like heaven. They were my first (Marco) and second (Michelangelo) owners, and they joined together to recollar me in January after my ill-fated two-year adventure with my third owner came to an end. But there were two drives pulling things apart: Marco has just collared his girlfriend of a couple of years, she's now his slave-in-training, and they both need much more of his attention focused on her training and on their relationship. And Michelangelo and i rediscovered this spring all the reasons i had belonged to him for so long before, he's always been the love of my life, we fit together like a key in a lock, and we have another tiny little update: He asked me to marry him, and we're getting married in the fall. (Surprise! i said yes!) This is the way he wanted things to work out, and i'm with him, always. (Yeah, i'm pretty happy. Just try getting my feet to touch the ground, i dare you!)

But over and above being his wife i will still be his slave first, last and always, and our poly life will continue to evolve. Marco and i are still lovers and i will continue as his submissive, with my master's permission and blessing, but not his slave. We now have a third Master/slave couple we're deeply involved with too, so our triangle has evolved into a hexagon, or maybe a triangle of three couples. We would find a way to make our lives even more complicated, wouldn't we? And you probably only wanted to know if this M/M/f thing is really possible, huh? Well, my answer is yes, it really is possible, and it can be SPECTACULAR, but the more lives you try to tie together, the more life there is to tangle up the knots...

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RE: Seeking some information - 7/19/2005 5:31:08 AM

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We would find a way to make our lives even more complicated, wouldn't we? And you probably only wanted to know if this M/M/f thing is really possible, huh? Well, my answer is yes, it really is possible, and it can be SPECTACULAR, but the more lives you try to tie together, the more life there is to tangle up the knots...

HA you call THAT complicated? Child's play!!!

;) Congrats on the commitment.

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RE: Seeking some information - 7/19/2005 7:46:57 AM

ravenna

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Thanks, darling! i so appreciate your good wishes. And your life does sound a little complex too. Your Owner must need a fulltime event planner just to keep everyone's schedules from colliding! Is that part of his lucky slavegirl's duties? i'll have to call on you when next i'm befuddled by our hexagonal sexual mathematics. (i have trouble with numbers in base-ten, much less base-six...)

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RE: Seeking some information - 7/19/2005 9:29:52 AM

stormsfate

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I'm sorry in a way to hear of the changes in your life, Ravenna. I know it must be bittersweet for you in ways, even as you look forward to the future.

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RE: Seeking some information - 7/19/2005 9:35:49 AM

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It's been a tough summer for me and will likely continue to a tough fall. One of my close VA beaus has launched himself into the NOVA/DC TNG crowd and has been seriously getting involved with friends and dating women that I'm not really a part of, my Boston partner and I have been going through bumps with finding ourselves again and re-developing together, my female friend has lifted her wings and is getting serious with someone else, and my boyfriend will be moving to TX in a few weeks to begin graduate school.

I was definitely going through empty-nest syndrome with my "entourage" in all states of shift and change. Suddenly I was no longer the social planner of the group (and Ravenna, YES that's my job for the Owner lol), suddenly I was going to THEIR events, suddenly they weren't looking to me to help guide and connect them to people. I felt a little disoriented, lost, left behind.

And then I realized they were doing exactly what I had been teaching them to do and wanting them to do from the start- gain understanding and confidence so that they COULD go out on their own and have their own relationships, adventures. We're still connected, but it's a changed connection.

I'm debating getting a new crop of newbies this fall to start again. ;) I'm honestly not sure what will happen after the boyfriend leaves as I've never had a relationship go from close to LDR, always the opposite. It's a big blank slate.

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RE: Seeking some information - 7/20/2005 12:25:22 AM

ravenna

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Thanks, stormsfate, bittersweet is the word, i've been crying buckets, both happy tears and sad. But it seems i always have to surrender something to gain something, and who should know better about that process than a slave, i guess... The biggest obstacle was sheer distance, my home is here with Michelangelo in Virginia, but Marco is based in Colorado, and we spent a lot of time together, you should see our frequent flyer miles, and i'm positive i could have been enough slavegirl for both of them if we were just all in the same place together full time, even within a hundred miles of each other, but they couldn't quite get me into two places at once, though they really tried. And as Michelangelo says, at some point a man just needs a woman of his own, so this probably would have happened eventually, no matter how far i got stretched. But this is allowing us all to move forward, as they say, and what lies ahead for me is so joyful, i'm just amazed to be actually marrying my master, it's something i've dreamed of, but never had really expected, i'm still in shock.

EmeraldSlave, i so sympathize with all the changes YOU are going through! At least it sounds like your relationship with your Owner is stable. But your partners spinning off in all directions and your boyfriend going LDR is so wrenching, i know. All i can say is frequent flyer miles, keep an airport-security-ready bag packed at all times, and phone sex phone sex phone sex! And who knows, you may have a shipload of new recruits, and you'll find yourself the social director of a whole Love Boat of newbies! All my best wishes, darling, i'm sure you'll sail through, and you can borrow my theme song from this spring, one of them anyway: "How Can I Miss You If You Won't Go Away?"

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RE: Seeking some information - 9/6/2005 1:27:37 PM

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Dear Chainedraven,

I am not sure what you are seeking, but let me tell you a bit about us. We are a dominant couple and we have been together for 7 years now. Because harmony is so important to us we agreed that Master who has more experience and is more aggressive would be the final authority for the House while I would be the Mistress and Steward of the House -- basically ensuring that the house was run efficiently and smoothly and that all was cared for properly.

The submissives, as part of the Master's property, therefore fall under both of our domain -- the submissives do not belong to me or to Him -- they belong to both of us.

I am not sure what you are seeking, but if you wish tolearn more -- just email me and I'd be happy to tell you more.

Mistress White

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