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Real long distance chastity: Under lock and key - 9/11/2005 7:35:54 PM

AAkasha

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I'm interested to hear from hardcore chastity slaves that have successfully submitted via long distance to a femdom keyholder. Meaning, you are actually locked in a CB3000 or other device and she has the key. How did you work around the logistics -- ie, in case of emergency, and getting the key back in a reasonable time?

Is the honor system all it's cracked up to be? Seriously....how many subs probably unlock themselves and cheat? I know that intimate partners, those that have had time to really develop a relationship, probably have a lot better chance with the honor system. But what about the others?

Has anyone had luck with a combination lock system? I've got an idea for a truly fullproof, long distance key holding arrangement that provides a safety net for emergencies but no loop holes for sneaking and not getting caught. I'm just wondering how many subs would back down when they realized the proposition for complete, locked chastity was real -- and not just a game.

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RE: Real long distance chastity: Under lock and key - 9/11/2005 11:23:31 PM

lonewolf05

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quote:

I'm just wondering how many subs would back down when they realized the proposition for complete, locked chastity was real -- and not just a game.

Akasha

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MY guess is it is a wonderful measure to sift through the wannabes and the ones actually making the real bond.......

and "*I" am one of the real bonding types.

when my new p.a. heals w/ the new guiche...........it will all be locked under key.......

but i am celebate anyway..........so it doesnt have much effect..........its more for Her than me.
She has a power trip over it.

wolf

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RE: Real long distance chastity: Under lock and key - 9/12/2005 7:42:35 PM

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I would imagine quite a few submissives fail the honor system part. I've personally never done the long term chastity thing, especially long distance as well, but I have been controlled sexually so that I was only able to achieve pleasure upon her decision. It was tough. Really tough. The temptation is always there, and I know that had there been something like a chastity belt involved, it probably would have made the dichotomy work so much better because then even the temptation wouldn't be there. Well, the temptation would ALWAYS be there but the ability to act on it wouldn't.

I've often looked online trying to find someone who offers this, but for the most part, I've discovered it's kind of hard to know who to trust, and it's even harder when you don't know the woman. A couple of times it almost happened, but for some reason it never actually happened. I guess, for the most part, it had much more to do with not knowing her, and with her not knowing me. Not being in person with each other even once probably makes it really difficult.

But it's still one of those fantasies I have because it seems so intimate. I figure now that I can afford to travel around the country, I might one day approach someone with this as an idea, if it at least involved seeing her every now and then so we both knew who each other were and that chemistry could build on the actual fantasy of the device itself.

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RE: Real long distance chastity: Under lock and key - 9/12/2005 8:59:42 PM

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Wolf, the idea of chastity is to prevent ALL contact with the "parts", for masturbation, etc, not just for sex. Only what is necessary for hygiene and urination.

The guiche-PA think looks great, I hope you keep us posted on how it works IRL.

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RE: Real long distance chastity: Under lock and key - 9/12/2005 9:41:08 PM

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For what ever this is worth I was in a relationship with a dom and I would often travel for business. (7-12 days a stretch) What we did was use what are called channel slip ties which are only good one time. Similar to the fastners on a tether that a person would be required to use when the court sentences them to a house arrest. If they are ever opened, they wont close again. The ties all converged in an area secured by a lock accessibly only by key. The device was restraining enough to acheive its purpose, regretably, and allow hygiene necessities daily. I was provided
a safety key in a custom sealed envelope, impossible to to open and reclose with out notice. It served the purpose. I never liked those things...I guess thats why they were used. Side note, I havent tried travel these days with a device such as that- Airport security being what it is these days.

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RE: Real long distance chastity: Under lock and key - 9/13/2005 9:20:56 PM

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yes'M i'll keep Ya updated...

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