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Re Pay for play - 8/11/2005 12:02:45 PM

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Does paying a sub (woman) to take a spanking or session that does not include sex make her a whore? Would it offend most woman?

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RE: Re Pay for play - 8/11/2005 12:07:29 PM

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What is agreed between two people is their business as far as I'm concerned so no, it wouldn't offend me if a sub got paid.

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RE: Re Pay for play - 8/11/2005 1:29:24 PM

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ORIGINAL: miamibob
Does paying a sub (woman) to take a spanking or session that does not include sex make her a whore? Would it offend most woman?
Bob

Why are you asking us? To the extent that the play is sexual or provides sexual gratification...
Does she care that it makes her feel like a whore? If she does, and that makes her feel demeaned, than she shouldn't do it. Do you care that you're buying sex? If you do, and it's a negative thing for you, don't do it. Otherwise, anything that happens between 2 consenting adults in the privacy of their own home is their business and none of ours. M

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RE: Re Pay for play - 8/11/2005 1:55:26 PM

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Does paying a sub (woman) to take a spanking or session that does not include sex make her a whore? Would it offend most woman?

Explain what you mean by "whore"?
Do you see "whoring" as different from other branches of sex work?
Is there a sliding scale of "good" sex workers and "bad" sex workers?
Professional domination is sex work.

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RE: Re Pay for play - 8/11/2005 2:34:33 PM

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Does it make her a whore?

Lets look at the definition of the word whore:
whore n.

1. A prostitute.
2. A person considered sexually promiscuous.
3. A person considered as having compromised principles for personal gain.

Um.. was there sex involved? No. So number one does not apply.

Number two.. again, no sex, no sexual promiscuity

Ah, now number three is where the crux of this one rests. BlkTallFullfig brought up the question.. does it make the person feel demeaned. If it does, then the person is a whore because they've compromised themselves. If they don't have a problem with it, then they are not a whore. The only person who can decide the "whoreness" in this case is a person in this situation.. and the answer will be different for each,

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