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Question for the Dominant Women - 11/17/2005 6:10:57 PM

lilKinkster

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I am going to be doing a few photo shoots with a fetish feel to them and they will be somewhat LIVE action.

The photographer and I were talking and he asked me what I thought about doing a shoot with a Dominant woman...It caught me off guard for a moment, I pondered the question and I decided I would be up for it...ALthough I have NEVER been with a woman let alone a Domme. And Yes, Sir knows all about it, in fact he is encouraging my exploration.

Now I know this is going to come off sounding naive but...

What goes on between a female sub and a Domme? What would you think would make for great photos/art? Any scenarios that are particularly appealing?

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RE: Question for the Dominant Women - 11/17/2005 7:40:51 PM

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Mostly when I've trained and played with women the same basic thing happened as with my male partners.

Honestly, its about the power dynamic or the activities and with only a few exceptions, I don't see much difference.

There are stereotypes about differences between same sex and different sex interactions.

I think though that the photographer will have the ideas and he/she will direct you.

Just follow the directions and think about your master if you feel pressed for motivation.

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RE: Question for the Dominant Women - 11/18/2005 4:48:20 AM

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quote:

What goes on between a female sub and a Domme? What would you think would make for great photos/art? Any scenarios that are particularly appealing?

The photographer is already aware that two women in the shot will produce more sales than that of a woman alone or with a male.

MEN CAN'T GET ENOUGH OF WOMAN ON WOMAN ACTION

... even if it is an innocent stroll down the road holding hands.

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RE: Question for the Dominant Women - 11/18/2005 4:59:36 AM

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MEN CAN'T GET ENOUGH OF WOMAN ON WOMAN ACTION

... even if it is an innocent stroll down the road holding hands.

This is one area where i differ from most...i far prefer male involved images, as otherwise i feel left out of that situation.

One thing to think about, lilKinkster, is that once those photos are out there, there's no turning back...about 10-12 yrs ago i used to do quite a bit of bondage modeling...if i remember correctly, the last of it i did was either towards the end of '94 or the beginning of '95...i still see photos in some of the periodicals...mostly in ads...but some just as accompanyment to stories.

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RE: Question for the Dominant Women - 11/18/2005 8:21:56 AM

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ORIGINAL: lilKinkster

I am going to be doing a few photo shoots with a fetish feel to them and they will be somewhat LIVE action.

The photographer and I were talking and he asked me what I thought about doing a shoot with a Dominant woman...It caught me off guard for a moment, I pondered the question and I decided I would be up for it...ALthough I have NEVER been with a woman let alone a Domme. And Yes, Sir knows all about it, in fact he is encouraging my exploration.

Now I know this is going to come off sounding naive but...

What goes on between a female sub and a Domme? What would you think would make for great photos/art? Any scenarios that are particularly appealing?

lK.

being with a Dom is very differnt than being with a girl or Domme..
beginning your exploration with a female on camera might not be a place to begin...
the camera will reflect your nervousness and ciritical thoughts rather than the natural flow of excitement and desire....

you might want to explore this side of you before doing it for the first time on camera.

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RE: Question for the Dominant Women - 11/18/2005 9:14:14 AM

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This is only a photo shoot, right? With posed shots? Or are you doing a scene with a cameraman snapping around you?

A scene is a scene, really. I recommend rehearsing with the domme first, so you can get a feel for how you move together, and what looks good. Do a lot of practice shots (the digital age is our friend!) and work in front of a mirror if you can, so that when the final shoot starts you are comfortable.

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RE: Question for the Dominant Women - 11/19/2005 12:44:52 AM

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MEN CAN'T GET ENOUGH OF WOMAN ON WOMAN ACTION

Actually they can. After seeing too much of it they too get sort of bored.
Last time I was "in action" with a girlfriend my man had a deeply involved talk with her boyfriend - about politics.

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RE: Question for the Dominant Women - 11/19/2005 5:05:25 AM

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But what about the other men in the room?

You can't use that as an example. Your boy has watched you numerous times, but he had that moment to talk with the other gentleman. That was just one man in one situation involving a woman that he is familiar with.

These women are going to have their images scattered to the masses & statistics still show that men have a strong attraction to girl on girl imagery.

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