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Question about Your sub/slave - 6/20/2004 3:09:25 PM

anthrosub

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This is a question i don't think i've ever seen asked directly on this site or others...where and how did You meet/find your primary or current sub?

i've seen a few posts where the male introduced his wife to the idea of being a Domme/Mistress and She ended up taking to it like a fish to water. i've also read of couples having D/s inclinations that didn't surface until years later to the mutual satisfaction of both and other situations as well. But rarely if ever do i read of a Domme finding her slave online. i'm wondering if "online" is actually how people find each other or if it's actually more like a forum for discussing the lifestyle as it appears to be.

And yes, the fact that i'm seeking is a part of why i'm asking but even so, i think it's an interesting question. Thank You!

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RE: Question about Your sub/slave - 6/20/2004 3:18:15 PM

Sylverdawn

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I met all three of the boys I have collared online.. two through personal ads ...one through a bullentin board.

< Message edited by Sylverdawn -- 6/20/2004 10:52:30 PM >

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RE: Question about Your sub/slave - 6/20/2004 9:03:52 PM

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I hope you don't mind a sub answering this. I met my first r/l Dom online at a cam site. I wasn't looking because i was married and had an online Dom at the time. But after learning this Dom was looking for a sub in my area we started chatting and decided to meet. My online Dom released me so i could experience my fantasies in real life.

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RE: Question about Your sub/slave - 6/20/2004 11:14:55 PM

darbyib6ub9

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I have met one one online in a bdsm room on msn and have now been living with her for 5 happy years. But when we first started out online it was easy, but we stuck it through and are now very happy living 24/7.

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RE: Question about Your sub/slave - 6/20/2004 11:18:40 PM

darbyib6ub9

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Ok let me try this again, I have met my one online, at first it was very hard while we continued our relationship online for about a year. At best of time it was rocky, but we stuck with it. We have now been living together 24/7 for 5 yrs and W/we both are very happy.

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RE: Question about Your sub/slave - 6/21/2004 12:26:45 AM

StarMaiden

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I met my slave through our local munch group's yahoo list. When he joined I welcomed him, and he pursued me from there. In fact almost all of the men I have Dommed have been met through on-line resources.

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RE: Question about Your sub/slave - 6/22/2004 8:51:32 AM

Sundew02

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My first, second, and third, laughing, were real life meets and years ago. Now the one I have found me through a registry online. He is fairly local and is part time. I will say of all the hundreds of emails I have received, most saying they will relocate, this never happens. Some, life or family stop their forward momentum, others are just online to find some material for onehanded typing. Good luck anthrosub. Tess

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RE: Question about Your sub/slave - 6/22/2004 11:08:17 AM

Sinergy

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Hello,

I met my first submissive on an internet game she and I played, and we ended up finding a connection which turned out to be my initiation into the Lifestyle.

My first submissive introduced me to my second submissive who she met on-line and wanted to do the whole threesome thing with.

I was then in a vanilla relationship for years with somebody I met on-line.

Then a few months ago I realized I needed to do what Mr. Anderson's (Matrix) friend recommended and unplug. Which led to east coast swing dancing a few nights a week and possibly corrupting of my real life neighbor to the dark side.

Sinergy

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RE: Question about Your sub/slave - 6/25/2004 9:16:58 AM

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I met my subby hubby thru my brother - he introduced us because at the time we were both "needing" something.

My other slave found me online. I will be his First; he's joining my family this Monday from Germany.

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