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Pleasing her. The empathy test? - 10/2/2005 9:59:05 AM   
AAkasha


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Status: offline 		While I understand that all people are different, I wrote a short little
scenario based very closely on one of my many demeanors during a scene. And
I know what kinds of reactions I get.

The trick is reading the domme and saying the right thing. Is that so
difficult? Give it a try.

*****

She is weaing the gloves. So cruel. Every move she makes seems to have one
intention -- to make you more uncomfortable, to make you scared, to make you
helpless.

She is enjoying scaring you.

And when she tightens the bonds so securely that you wince, she smiles and
moves a finger down your cheek affectionately. She watches, intrigued, when
you squirm.

"You're helpless now," she says matter of factly. "I made sure of it."

You look at her, trying to search her eyes for some sort of indication of
her intentions.

She sits back and crosses her legs, eyeing you hungrily.

"So tell me. What do you want?"

************

The domme in this scenario would be most pleased with which response:

A. I want anything you want, Mistress.
B. I want to please you.
C. My wants don't matter.
D. I want you to let me go.
E. I want some CBT.
F. I want a chance to show you I can be good.
G. I want something to eat.
H. I want to please you with my tongue.

I. Other:


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RE: Pleasing her. The empathy test? - 10/2/2005 1:13:45 PM   
Evanesce


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quote:

The domme in this scenario would be most pleased with which response:

A. I want anything you want, Mistress.
B. I want to please you.
C. My wants don't matter.
D. I want you to let me go.
E. I want some CBT.
F. I want a chance to show you I can be good.
G. I want something to eat.
H. I want to please you with my tongue.

I. Other:


My vote is F, if I'm the femdom in question.

Put Master in that femdom's place and me in bonds, and the appropriate response is, "I want you to enjoy whatever it is you're planning to do with me, Sir."

Denise
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RE: Pleasing her. The empathy test? - 10/2/2005 1:46:24 PM   
Awakener


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RE: Pleasing her. The empathy test? - 10/2/2005 2:20:52 PM   
Sub03


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Status: offline 		I have had my Master ask me this question before.....not an easy answer. If I would have to pick one answer it would be....... A: i want anything you want Mistress

But then again i think A, B, C and F is a good response....as i said not an easy question.

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RE: Pleasing her. The empathy test? - 10/2/2005 4:06:41 PM   
justmira


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Status: offline 		Hi,

i don't know You or the Domme You mean in this scenario, but based on the Dommes i do know and would interact with .. my answer would be along the lines of "i, i, i want my teddy?" with a look of terror in my eyes.

They know and i know that They have control. So my answer would be unneccesary and given to increase Their pleasure in the knowledge that They have me scared.

cheers
mira ... who scares easy!

*edited to add ...

i just thought of a better response ... "i, i, i want a lawyer?"

< Message edited by justmira -- 10/2/2005 10:32:23 PM >

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RE: Pleasing her. The empathy test? - 10/2/2005 4:21:44 PM   
Nuke718


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Status: offline 		C. In that position the last thing I intend to do is go on about what I want...

Thats if these were all choices. Cuz if C wasnt there both A and B are decent alternatives.

C. My wants don't matter, just take what you need and I will try to please you my lady...

Nuke }:-

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RE: Pleasing her. The empathy test? - 10/2/2005 4:51:22 PM   
mossy


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Status: offline 		to me A or F with the fear the Domme' is playing on in this scene... that was my response

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RE: Pleasing her. The empathy test? - 10/2/2005 6:53:19 PM   
onceburned


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quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha
She sits back and crosses her legs, eyeing you hungrily.

"So tell me. What do you want?"
************

The domme in this scenario would be most pleased with which response:


D. I want you to let me go.

I think she would be tickled by this, because there is no way she would be letting me go (short of a safeword). The intent is to be playful.

After that, either
F. I want a chance to show you I can be good.
or
B. I want to please you.
would be acceptable.




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RE: Pleasing her. The empathy test? - 10/2/2005 7:06:59 PM   
kimmypuss


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Status: offline 		yes - I would say both
D: I want you to let me go - playfully
Since what I want is not the issue, my real response would be
F:I want to show you I can be good.


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RE: Pleasing her. The empathy test? - 10/2/2005 7:09:34 PM   
sanita


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Status: offline 		As i am scrolling through.... i know what i would guess She would want to hear, D.

Then i saw onceburned's response.

i'm with him.

The scene is a mind fuck. She is getting off on fear, on helplessness, and on a slight amount of cruelty.

"I want you to let me go." is a statement of discomfort and fear, and She does not have to do it.

i am not very Dominant at all, but oh, if i were playing a mind game, that would be the response i wanted.

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RE: Pleasing her. The empathy test? - 10/2/2005 9:11:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think I'd choose answer I (other).

"Well Ma'am, more than anything else I want to make you smile. If I can do that without needing to go to the emergency room afterward then so much the better."

respectfully submitted
denimknight

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RE: Pleasing her. The empathy test? - 10/3/2005 3:30:10 AM   
imtempting


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Status: offline 		Most likely A but if she is in a good mood then id probably say G..

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RE: Pleasing her. The empathy test? - 10/3/2005 3:53:56 AM   
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RE: Pleasing her. The empathy test? - 10/3/2005 4:46:07 AM   
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D. I want you to let me go.

Please. I don't know how much more of this I can take.

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RE: Pleasing her. The empathy test? - 10/3/2005 8:06:32 AM   
pet4mymaster


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Status: offline 		i would have choosen either
my wants do not matter Mistress
or i want you to let me go

while i would truly be wanting to please Her and i know that my wants other than pleaseing Her would be meaningless......from the comments that She was showing enjoyment in my pain i would believe She would want me to show fear and beg to be set free so that She may deny me that freedom or use it as a toy to dangel infront of me for coeresion

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RE: Pleasing her. The empathy test? - 10/3/2005 9:12:08 AM   
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Status: offline 		My reply would be: My wants don't matter

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RE: Pleasing her. The empathy test? - 10/8/2005 11:35:18 AM   
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Status: offline 		Sooooooooooooooooooo, what's the answer You would want to hear, Akasha?

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RE: Pleasing her. The empathy test? - 10/8/2005 3:44:12 PM   
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RE: Pleasing her. The empathy test? - 10/8/2005 11:47:37 PM   
AAkasha


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sanita

Sooooooooooooooooooo, what's the answer You would want to hear, Akasha?



Personally, for me, I like D. "I want you to let me go."
I say that because in the anecdote, the femdom has shown both verbally and through body language that she is enjoying the resitance, fear, hesitation.

Of course, your mileage may vary -- and all femdoms are different.

Akasha

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RE: Pleasing her. The empathy test? - 10/9/2005 3:08:37 AM   
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Status: offline 		A. I want anything you want, Mistress.
B. I want to please you.
C. My wants don't matter.
D. I want you to let me go.
E. I want some CBT.
F. I want a chance to show you I can be good.
G. I want something to eat.
H. I want to please you with my tongue.

I: Other.

World Peace!! or CBT. *chuckle chuckle chuckle*

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