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No men - 11/18/2005 3:22:18 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		I have a friend who is a Dom he is not a switch just a dom. he has a profile i helped him write. he says he is seeings sub/slave women and what he is looking for in a sub/slave. The bottom of his profile says in cap letters NO MEN but he still get contacted by sub men. Can anyone tell me why?

littleone
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RE: No men - 11/18/2005 3:27:25 PM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		Because people don't/can't/won't read a profile in its entirety before sending pm's.

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RE: No men - 11/18/2005 3:39:28 PM   
NakedOnMyChain


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Status: offline 		Exactly what Katy said. Some people spam other people, some just don't read profiles and simply look at the pic. Either way, it all adds up to the same thing: Lots of unwanted mail. He'll get used to it after a while.

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RE: No men - 11/18/2005 3:47:51 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Cuz putting a sign on your window that says "NO phone calls from Kentucky" won't stop people calling from Kentucky.

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RE: No men - 11/18/2005 4:04:55 PM   
subaltern1


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Because some men are dickheads. Especially those from Mesa, Arizona in my experience.

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RE: No men - 11/18/2005 4:38:33 PM   
JohnWarren


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

I have a friend who is a Dom he is not a switch just a dom. he has a profile i helped him write. he says he is seeings sub/slave women and what he is looking for in a sub/slave. The bottom of his profile says in cap letters NO MEN but he still get contacted by sub men. Can anyone tell me why?

littleone


Hope springs eternal in the human breast: Man never is, but always To be Blest. (Alexander Pope)

It's probably not a literacy function since they could find the "send" button



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RE: No men - 11/18/2005 5:10:09 PM   
michaelMI


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

I have a friend who is a Dom he is not a switch just a dom. he has a profile i helped him write. he says he is seeings sub/slave women and what he is looking for in a sub/slave. The bottom of his profile says in cap letters NO MEN but he still get contacted by sub men. Can anyone tell me why?

littleone


probably because most MEN can't read when horny...LOL

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RE: No men - 11/18/2005 5:11:24 PM   
michaelMI


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Because people don't/can't/won't read a profile in its entirety before sending pm's.


i agree, the attention span of a horny man is very short...LOL

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RE: No men - 11/18/2005 5:27:20 PM   
KnightofMists


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

I have a friend who is a Dom he is not a switch just a dom. he has a profile i helped him write. he says he is seeings sub/slave women and what he is looking for in a sub/slave. The bottom of his profile says in cap letters NO MEN but he still get contacted by sub men. Can anyone tell me why?

littleone



mmmmmmmmmm cause they are sub boys and not men *W*

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RE: No men - 11/18/2005 5:40:38 PM   
MadameDahlia


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From: Southern California
Status: offline 		I've got a suggestion...

Step 1: Go to "Mail"
Step 2: Go to "Mail Controls" (Bright red, can't miss it)
Step 3: Click the 4th box down (or 5th if we're being real picky)

This should reroute all emails from men into the "bulk mail" folder. And he'll never have to be bothered with it again.

Despite the step-by-step instructions I wasn't being cheeky.... honest.

Good luck.

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RE: No men - 11/18/2005 5:48:59 PM   
yourpantyboi


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Status: offline 		cheecky??????????

no.

actually.....that IS a good answer.

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RE: No men - 11/18/2005 5:56:00 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: KnightofMist
mmmmmmmmmm cause they are sub boys and not men *W*

Hmm I understand the humor in your statement but personally find it distasteful. It just pushed a button. Sub males don't get much respect as it is, when they should be cherished and all that great stuff that we talk about female submissives.

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RE: No men - 11/18/2005 6:28:18 PM   
KnightofMists


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross


quote:

ORIGINAL: KnightofMist
mmmmmmmmmm cause they are sub boys and not men *W*

Hmm I understand the humor in your statement but personally find it distasteful. It just pushed a button. Sub males don't get much respect as it is, when they should be cherished and all that great stuff that we talk about female submissives.



you are absolutely right that often male submissives as a whole do not get seem to get much respect from the lifestyle community in comparison to the female submissive...... The fact of the matter there is alot of gender sterotypes on both sides of the coin. Are these sterotypes fair... not usually. I tend to judge each person on the merits of their behaviors.. one can assume a person's motivation/intent all you want... but in the end... it is the actions we do or not do that one can only be judged upon.

So, I am not going to be politically correct in my phrases... if you percieved sub boys as negative ... good... becuase it was intended as such.... but I know many sub men/males that I have the utmost respect for... many are better than the dom boys I know.

KoM

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RE: No men - 11/18/2005 7:14:23 PM   
jro2020


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From: Idaho
Status: offline 		No you are all wrong it is because anytime a man sees a profile that says NO MEN they immedeatly have to message that person whearther they are a dom or a sub

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Thanks for all the attention folks. Do me a favor and go to http://www.dearslut.net Yeah the server seems ot be a bit spazzy but my friend just started it up and it would make them happy if yo visited.

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RE: No men - 11/18/2005 8:11:32 PM   
orfunboi


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Status: offline 		Not sure, same reason i still get emails from sub males offering to serve me....maybe they don't read the profile, maybe the don't understand what they read.

I do know its not limited to males, i also get emails from women as far away as England expressing an interest in me, although my profile says i live in Michigan and have no desire to move or be in an online relationship.

if you find out why, let me know.

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RE: No men - 11/18/2005 10:24:08 PM   
OsideGirl


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Status: offline 		Because everyone wants to believe that they are the exception. Same thing woud happen if you said, "No Men older than 40". You'd get a whole bunch of emails explaining to you why you're wrong in making that cut off.

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RE: No men - 11/19/2005 12:09:05 AM   
APhacetoSit


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Status: offline 		Goodness Gracious,
If that works in reverse, i might have to change my whole profile around.
Think i would get anywhere if i listed No Dominant Women?

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RE: No men - 11/19/2005 12:17:54 AM   
KCMOLucky


Posts: 115
Joined: 4/10/2005
From: Kansas City, Missouri
Status: offline 		Ehh, the same reason I still get messages from people outside the US, TVs, CDs, Sissybos, Femme's, and Lesbians...

People don't care. They thing that they are the excpetion, and you 'might' be interested in them, even if you already said no.

Delete and Block...and block their new name, and their second after that.

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RE: No men - 11/19/2005 3:07:39 AM   
wipmebeetme100


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quote:

I have a friend who is a Dom he is not a switch just a dom. he has a profile i helped him write. he says he is seeings sub/slave women and what he is looking for in a sub/slave. The bottom of his profile says in cap letters NO MEN but he still get contacted by sub men. Can anyone tell me why?



For years i worked as a furniture salesperson. Almost everyone who came into the store told me, "I'm just looking, i don't want anything". Do you think i believed them and left them alone? Hello NO! I would have starved. In my mind i was the worlds greatest salesperson, i would get them interested and they would buy! Guess what? It worked that way more often than not.
It is the same type of thinking that these sub men have....and theres not a damn thing wrong with having "belief".
Tell your Dom friend about the option of setting his mail controls if these e-mails are such an inconvenience. That will eliminate the problem for him.


Peace,
cathy

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RE: No men - 11/19/2005 3:11:38 AM   
darkslife


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Joined: 3/21/2004
Status: offline 		I get emails from men, women older than mother (dommes usually) and so on.

Annoying, but ignorable

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