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LIFE and It's Lessons - 10/22/2004 5:56:55 PM   
cariad


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in the past three days this slave has not had the
computer (she took time off for herself), no phone
(thank goodness for answering machines), no answering
her door except once to get the pizza, she has
realized a few things.

1. she is lucky to have a loving, caring and wonderful
Master whom she thanks for making her the slave she is
today.
2. Life is chalk full of surprises
3. Life is chalk full of "STRESS," but it's all in how
W/we deal with it that counts.
4. Life may not be fair, but then again there are
times W/we have to go with the curve balls it throws
U/us.
5. she is a strong slave and can do anything she puts
her mind to.
6. she is a smart person whom when her sight gets
blocked or foggy, she stops and thinks about how to
handle things.
7. she has learned to open up and talk about her
feelings instead of hiding them because to hide them
can give off the impression she consents to something
when in fact she doesn't.

have Y/you ever stopped to listen with no sounds in
the house or apartment?
have Y/you ever stopped to smell the roses and thought
how without Y/your sense of smell Y/you would cope?
have Y/you ever stopped to look at the sunset/sunrise,
and wondered what Y/you would do without Y/your sight?
have you as a slave or a sub thought: what if i lose
my sight, hearing or speach?
have you as a sub or slave thought: what kind of slave
would i be if that happened to me?
Dom/Dommes: have You ever thought what kind of
Dom/Domme You would be if You lost Your hearing or
speach?

this slave doesn't mean to ramble but these past 3
days without the pc, phone or answering her door gave
her a chance to take time for herself and realize that
although she has a curve ball coming up ahead in this
coming week, that she is strong, she can do it, she
WILL do it, she can seek help when needed, it's ok to
talk about her feelings and not to hide them.

this past 3 days has been a learning experience for
her, in that she now has a greater outlook on life and
what it holds for her as a person and as a slave.

have Y/you ever stopped to wonder what it is that
makes Y/you tick?
why does it make Y/you tick?
what gets Y/your fur ruffled, so to speak?
have Y/you stepped outside the mirror lately and
looked at Y/you as a person, then as a slave/sub/Dom
or Domme?
what did Y/you see if Y/you did?
what can Y/you do to better communicate with the O/one
Y/you love, care for or are Topping/bottoming with?
do Y/you take things for granted that perhaps Y/you
shouldn't? if so, what can Y/you do to change that?
when was the last time Y/you did something just to
live vicariously?
did Y/you enjoy it? if so why or why not?
when was the last time Y/you jumped into a puddle and
laughed about it?
when was the last time Y/you thought about what Y/your
child(ren) did that put a smile on Y/your face if
Y/you have kids? if not when was the last time Y/your
niece, nephew or youngest cousin said or did something
that put a smile on Y/your face?

these are all things this slave has learned and so
many more. ok enough rambling for today but be
prepared for this slave to talk more in the upcoming
days because she has a lot to say and is seeking
answers to some questions.

_____________________________

"The smile on Your face lets me know that You need me. There's a truth in your eyes sayin' You'll never leave me. The touch of Your hand says You'll catch me if ever i fall. You say it best when You say nothing at all."
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RE: LIFE and It's Lessons - 10/22/2004 6:22:47 PM   
sweetpleaser


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That was well expressed. Congratulations on finding that peace. I have experienced it myself and sad to say not often. Sometimes you get involved in everyday life and lose sight of what is important in life. Responsibilities can bog you down. Especially if you have children, partner, full time job, family obligations, and other activities such as church. Thank you for making me remember!

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~ann~

It's not the men in my life that count, it's the life in my men.--Mae West

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