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It just keeps getting better - 10/11/2004 4:07:28 PM

pure

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A few weeks back i got a e-mail from a Wonderfully Funny and Sadistic Dom Whom was seeking friends to hang out with well when i gazed upon His profile and picture i was in Awe He is so dayam Sexy i had to respond well i wrote back and i must say the first thing that totally drew me towards Him was His sense of Humor...If a Man can make me laugh then i adore Him....Well i *so not like me mind You* invited Him out to a fetish party that was happening that weekend He accepted graciously and i was so ever thankful for it. We went to two events that weekend and have spoken regularly since. We are dating and playpartners in other forms...He is wonderful and i am blessed to know Him and to have met Him upon Collarme.

We do not know where the fates shall take Uus but Wwe both know that the attraction is there, the desire to move foward is there and Wwe are taking it one step at a time

If it works then Wonderful if not then atleast i have a wonderful Friend and great memories to build on

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RE: It just keeps getting better - 10/12/2004 5:57:36 AM

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Congratulations!! I am so happy you found someone you get along with so well!! psst....okay, who is he?

ann

PS: your pictures on your profile are beautiful!

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RE: It just keeps getting better - 10/12/2004 6:05:49 AM

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Thats great Pure! Congrats! and i hope it is all you want it to be.

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RE: It just keeps getting better - 10/12/2004 10:22:23 PM

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Thank you sweetpleaser...~s~

and you as well theroebabe

i am truly blessed
~purrs after the eve with Him~

His name is SouthernSadist and He is wonderful i am truly lucky

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RE: It just keeps getting better - 10/13/2004 5:06:54 AM

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That is wonderful to hear.. always good to hear of happiness ...

Is He close to you or is this long distance type relationship?

well good luck with the relationship and keep us informed *smiles*

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RE: It just keeps getting better - 11/1/2004 11:17:36 AM

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*sighs* seems all things come to a end

He was local i was seeing Him quite often during week and on weekends and alas i was to see Him a few weeks ago Friday and on the thursday before after Oour scene and sharing in intimate moments He left the state without a phonecall or goodbye or explaination anything

So alas i am a bit lost and confused

but i thank Yyou all that wished me well and happiness in what i thought was to be something real

Yyour thoughts were appreciated
even if i ended up being foolish
The kindness here shall remain with me

thanks
pure~

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RE: It just keeps getting better - 11/10/2004 11:12:33 AM

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quote:

PS: your pictures on your profile are beautiful!

Pure - congrats on finding a wonderful relationship.

BTW, does anyone else think that in several of Pure's pics that she has an amazing resemblance to "Grace" from the TV show "Will and Grace"?
(I don't know the actress' real name)

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RE: It just keeps getting better - 11/11/2004 5:24:36 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: pure

*sighs* seems all things come to a end

NOT always true, keep searching and you'll find what you seek. Never give up. Sometimes you just HAVE to have faith to get through those disappointing times.

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He was local i was seeing Him quite often during week and on weekends and alas i was to see Him a few weeks ago Friday and on the thursday before after Oour scene and sharing in intimate moments He left the state without a phonecall or goodbye or explaination anything

Well, if he doesn't surface with a legit and very important example of an explaination for going poof ... shame on him. -- and if not you are better off, i am certain.

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but i thank Yyou all that wished me well and happiness in what i thought was to be something real

Having read the initial post with it's congratulatory replies, i was all set to add my most enthusiastic congratulations along with the rest.

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Yyour thoughts were appreciated
even if i ended up being foolish
The kindness here shall remain with me

i don't sense any foolishness. What i sense is one who had hoped for a good outcome and took the first steps needed to make it all happen.

i hope that you find what/who it is you are seeking and that they are a bit more honorable & worthy in comparison to what this 'dom' seemed to have turned out to represent. i, for one, will look forward to seeing your description of such a positive experience posted here in the future.

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RE: It just keeps getting better - 11/15/2004 8:41:20 PM

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and this too shall pass little one..........................
and I must agree, you're pictures are absolutely Georgeous!!!
you are beautiful.............and a red head, yummy................
Mistress Wikang

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RE: It just keeps getting better - 11/16/2004 11:14:09 PM

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So alas i am a bit lost and confused

I sympathize for your lost. I was dumbfounded to hear about his actions. Sheese! I guess you just never know. Hopefully this won't dampen your enthusiasm. Use it as a learning experience. Keep the good times as fond memories and put the rest behind you.
You know what they say when you fall off the horse....

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RE: It just keeps getting better - 11/17/2004 1:13:51 PM

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Taurus...thank You for such compliment i am far from the beautiful

Grace *Debra Messing* but i appreciate the thought and the kind words

i am just a simple girl but it does my heart good to know Some find me cute

again i send thanks

Wikang....You honor me with such wonderful words
You have brought a smile to the face of a girl that has felt a little less than beautiful as of late
i can not say enough how sweet it was to see such words

cynnacent1...thank you as well for your thoughts
i wish i could say that all has gotten better but i must admit
of having my bad days still wondering what happened if i did something wrong or the ever apparrant whats wrong with me to make it happen and that is what drives me nuts now is i feel i lost a part of me....part of my innocence that truly allows myself to care and trust people, part of my faith.

i know logically in my mind but my heart still is confused
i don't understand how i can be real with someOne and just try to be true to Them
and have them disappear and use me and leave me lost

and a even larger part of me hates that i feel like that
i know i am pretty and smart and a good girl but yet still that doubt finds my heart, eats away abit at my spirit and makes me wonder why even try anymore

but yet i am still here...i am still moving foward....just a bit more jaded and hard to reach now sadly

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RE: It just keeps getting better - 11/17/2004 6:41:05 PM

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*falls in sighing and sad*

Ok now i am even more confused and lost

i finally after all this time recieve a e-mail after i wrote and asked what i did wrong and what happened

i got the "geez well Your great but....i was afraid of how i cared for you and the feelings that were arising and well"

that doesn't help it just makes it all hurt so much worse

Any thoughts on what to do?

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RE: It just keeps getting better - 11/21/2004 1:14:52 PM

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I know this was very confusing and hurtful to you. Made you doubt yourself, but please don't let that happen. Remember it was him and not you.

Be the best you can be and someone worthy of you will come along. He wasn't the one. There is someone out there.

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RE: It just keeps getting better - 11/21/2004 11:37:39 PM

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Pure - Im sorry you had that happen to you but all I can say is keep going forward - as for his excuse about well your great but etc etc - that just sucks and sadly its the way of life that you get that in realtime as well as online.
Dont doubt yourself - just think you had a lucky escape before you got too far into it. and take care

smiles
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