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Is bisexuality part of being submissive??? - 2/15/2006 2:24:52 PM

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This is something i am wondering about. i am not againist it at all. By myself i do not llok for males as lover but being submissive it stand out in my mind.

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RE: Is bisexuality part of being submissive??? - 2/15/2006 2:46:28 PM

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On your profile you identify as bisexual. So I'm left wondering about your comments.

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RE: Is bisexuality part of being submissive??? - 2/15/2006 2:48:41 PM

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No, bisexual is not a part of being submissive. You can be bisexual and have nothing to do with BDSM and/or you can be into BDSM and not be bisexual. They are exclusive to one another, though there are plenty of people who embrace both.

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RE: Is bisexuality part of being submissive??? - 2/15/2006 3:11:29 PM

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No, being submissive does not mean you have to be bisexual. It does mean you have to be upfront about your preferences in searching for a partner. If this is a limit, let them know it at the start. You can not force someone to be a certain sexuality. Yes, there are some submissives who will perform bisexual acts just to please their dominant. That in itself does not mean they are bisexual either. Just means that is something they are willing to do to please that dominant.

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RE: Is bisexuality part of being submissive??? - 2/15/2006 4:01:53 PM

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Not at all i am not bi as a matter of fact in my case it is a hard limit. hey if it works for others great i an happy for them. But being bi is not part and parcel of being submisive.

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RE: Is bisexuality part of being submissive??? - 2/15/2006 4:07:02 PM

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The two are mutually exclusive.
However...
In my opinion, the majority of submissives are female. Our society is much more readily accepting of female homo/bisexuality than it's male counterpart. As such, I think it's quite possible that even here at collarme, in all of our vast acceptance, women are still more likely to advertise and/or explore their bisexuality than men.
So, in essence, I don't think that it's submissives that are more prone to bisexuality as it is that females just happen to dominate the submissive catagory.

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RE: Is bisexuality part of being submissive??? - 2/15/2006 6:08:59 PM

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i can vouch that it is not a requirement to be bi and be a sub. for me, if someone forced a dick in my mouth, i would abruptly bite it off and spit it out...i know...a gross and painful image, but maybe that will clear things up...LOL

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RE: Is bisexuality part of being submissive??? - 2/15/2006 6:55:50 PM

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In my opinion, the majority of submissives are female.

Interesting. On what do you base your opinion?

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RE: Is bisexuality part of being submissive??? - 2/16/2006 4:34:35 AM

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I have known two Mistresses that while they consider themselves straight, they both have had the desire or at least interest in seeing two male sales get it on together while in their company. Neither time would they want to participate in the sex , but they crave the domination over the men. If one is bi to start that is okay, but the thrill to at least one Mistress is the power to make a male slave forced to service another man... Does this make sense to you ? Is it in some way an ultimate gift to a dom from a hetrosexual male to perform in this manner ???

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RE: Is bisexuality part of being submissive??? - 2/16/2006 4:40:39 AM

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not gonna happen here. i would ask, perhaps demand, immediate release right then and there. but that's just me.

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RE: Is bisexuality part of being submissive??? - 2/16/2006 5:57:17 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

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In my opinion, the majority of submissives are female.

Interesting. On what do you base your opinion?

Celeste

Dittoing that.

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RE: Is bisexuality part of being submissive??? - 2/16/2006 9:31:29 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: michaelGA

if someone forced a dick in my mouth, i would abruptly bite it off and spit it out...i know...a gross and painful image, but maybe that will clear things up...LOL

Well, Michael...see we DO have something in common!

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RE: Is bisexuality part of being submissive??? - 2/16/2006 11:18:16 AM

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wish i were female in a world where there were no men at all, or men would be nothing more than sperm donors...they wouldn't be allowed to have sex, just produce sperm for reproduction...LOL

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RE: Is bisexuality part of being submissive??? - 2/16/2006 11:26:36 AM

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ORIGINAL: michaelGA

i can vouch that it is not a requirement to be bi and be a sub. for me, if someone forced a dick in my mouth, i would abruptly bite it off and spit it out...i know...a gross and painful image, but maybe that will clear things up...LOL

Thank you for your wonderful visual this morning michael....

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RE: Is bisexuality part of being submissive??? - 2/16/2006 11:29:53 AM

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wish i were female in a world where there were no men at all, or men would be nothing more than sperm donors...they wouldn't be allowed to have sex, just produce sperm for reproduction...LOL

I think that was the Amazons... I used to wish that I lived in that type of sociaty also.. but that was when I was a Dianic.

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RE: Is bisexuality part of being submissive??? - 2/16/2006 11:31:53 AM

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here's a question to ponder:

who would win in battle?

A Gorean Master or and Amazon Queen?

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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RE: Is bisexuality part of being submissive??? - 2/16/2006 11:33:47 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DragonNphoenix

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ORIGINAL: michaelGA

i can vouch that it is not a requirement to be bi and be a sub. for me, if someone forced a dick in my mouth, i would abruptly bite it off and spit it out...i know...a gross and painful image, but maybe that will clear things up...LOL

Thank you for your wonderful visual this morning michael....

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Hell of a wake-up call...huh?

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RE: Is bisexuality part of being submissive??? - 2/16/2006 11:34:53 AM

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GO AMAZON!!!

dont tell my Dragon that I said that....

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RE: Is bisexuality part of being submissive??? - 2/16/2006 1:24:05 PM

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well having been in Gor and read about amazons i think it would be a draw. Maybe not but thas just my 2 cents.

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RE: Is bisexuality part of being submissive??? - 2/16/2006 4:55:29 PM

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I'm not bi and I am very submissive.

I have had sex with a woman and I might again. I still don't think I would consider myself bisexual. For me, I think of being bi meaning you have feelings other then just sexual for the opposite sex and for me that simply isn't the case.

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