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Help a sub avoid the hell of the abuser - 1/5/2006 3:20:47 PM   
Thor22


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A requet to all those subs, whose first experience of bdsm was abusve!
iI is to make a postng to a web site, for those subs, that come after, to learn from.-- I am at the moment talking ,oops, was talking! to a girlof a week experiencel only curious in a casual sexy sort of way-- the position now is, the girl of thirty is collared and forbidden any contact with Doms or subs! I can come up with a dozen examples of the tricks that are being played, her response is silence ! the worry is that in the 'real 'world she is a big cheese, and treats my squarking as an amusing fuspot
The need is for a place she can go to, that is wrtitten, by those who have experienced such a happening, in the language of the real feelings -not the ones that will sit nicely on the plate as decoration - the ones that dive between your legs and scare you rigid- those feelings have got to be honest or it will look as if it's a plausable fantasy I am greatly worried as this sitution is wrong -like a cacked bell
if someone wishes to take over this then please do- I am only relatively new- 5yrs
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RE: Help a sub avoid the hell of the abuser - 1/5/2006 3:22:25 PM   
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Just educate her to see the signs on her own. Otherwise it is slander and you can be sued without proof.

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RE: Help a sub avoid the hell of the abuser - 1/5/2006 4:43:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sub4hire

Just educate her to see the signs on her own. Otherwise it is slander and you can be sued without proof.


Besides an "abuser" can change an email address and cover tracks. It's like teaching someone to fish rather than handing them a fish.

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