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Have you been contacted by........ - 8/11/2005 6:25:07 PM   
perfection20005


Posts: 412
Joined: 4/20/2005
Status: offline 		I received a message from a Dom who just joined yesterday. In it he stated that I shouldn't have a profile on here because I'm collared and I'm just taking up space. I thought this was very rude, and uncalled for. Master took care of him for me, but I was wondering if any other collared sub/slave received one like this. I'm not going to mention names, if he wrote you, you know who he is.
Thanks for listening to me rant about this. I just can't believe that people can be so damn rude.

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perfection

"I took one look at Him, and I knew He was my Master."
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RE: Have you been contacted by........ - 8/11/2005 6:26:17 PM   
sub4hire


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At least he read your profile and was able to comprehend enough to know you have a Master. So he is better than most here.


There is an upside to any situation.


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"The dumbest people I know are those who know it all."

Malcolm Forbes

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RE: Have you been contacted by........ - 8/11/2005 6:28:44 PM   
EmeraldSlave2


Posts: 3610
Joined: 1/1/2004
Status: offline 		A few times by a few people.

I've been told I confuse people because I use capitals.

Oh well....

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RE: Have you been contacted by........ - 8/11/2005 6:31:08 PM   
perfection20005


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quote:

ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2

A few times by a few people.

I've been told I confuse people because I use capitals.

Oh well....


You don't confuse me Emerald. Although I walk around in a state of confusion most of the time.


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perfection

"I took one look at Him, and I knew He was my Master."

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RE: Have you been contacted by........ - 8/11/2005 6:32:52 PM   
mnottertail


Posts: 1886
Joined: 11/3/2004
Status: offline 		You can only tell people with the one world view (and of course the correct one) that assholes are like Doms, eveyones got one. Perhaps you could introduce him to the girls from Nigeria and Ghana......

Ron

The truely clueless will overwhelmingly remain so

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"Schlau, aber nichts wahr" Albert Einstein

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RE: Have you been contacted by........ - 8/11/2005 6:44:29 PM   
stormsfate


Posts: 846
Joined: 2/1/2005
Status: offline 		I've had a couple like that, and one girl emailed once saying something along the lines of "for someone not looking you sure are here a lot". I think she liked me and didn't know how else to approach me



best regards,
fate

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RE: Have you been contacted by........ - 8/11/2005 7:13:43 PM   
smilezz


Posts: 489
Joined: 6/18/2004
Status: offline 		I have not gotten this specific one...i guess i will wait and see. I have gotten one a few months ago that said i was wasting space period. I was no slave because i was on this site and talking to other people. >smirks<

I politely e-mailed the snert back and said: thank you for the e-mail...do your parents know you are using their account? *laughs* it was deleted that night.

~smilezz~

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RE: Have you been contacted by........ - 8/11/2005 10:27:29 PM   
slavedesires


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

You can only tell people with the one world view (and of course the correct one) that assholes are like Doms, eveyones got one. Perhaps you could introduce him to the girls from Nigeria and Ghana......

Ron

The truely clueless will overwhelmingly remain so



R O T F L M F A O !!

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....the greatest gift.....vulnerability

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RE: Have you been contacted by........ - 8/11/2005 10:32:48 PM   
perverseangelic


Posts: 2245
Joined: 2/2/2004
From: Davis, Ca
Status: offline 		Though I don't know if it was the same person, I got contacted by an individual who told me that I was at the site far too often for someone who wasn't looking, and that my profile was displacing other, "more worthy sub/slaves" :)

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RE: Have you been contacted by........ - 8/11/2005 11:50:19 PM   
CalliopePurple


Posts: 769
Joined: 11/29/2004
From: rural NE Florida
Status: offline 		Yeah, I've been mailed by someone who said I shouldn't be here because I'm not looking. Stupid people. At least he actually read my profile, unlike the people that get my form reply. I figure if they don't personalize things, neither should I.

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Don't give me love that's clean and smooth
I'm ready for the rougher stuff
No sweet romance, I've had enough
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RE: Have you been contacted by........ - 8/12/2005 1:58:20 AM   
nella


Posts: 1243
Joined: 12/30/2004
From: Norway
Status: offline 		There is always those whit to mutch free time on their hands and little creativity, so pestering others become their number one hobby.

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RE: Have you been contacted by........ - 8/12/2005 5:59:06 AM   
littleone35


Posts: 403
Joined: 2/17/2005
Status: offline 		It seem to me that some people really need to get a life. Instead of contacting a owned slave they should be spending their time comtsacting thr subs/slaves that are looking for a Dom. Some people have no manners.

littleone

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RE: Have you been contacted by........ - 8/12/2005 6:08:43 AM   
darkangel


Posts: 2339
Status: offline
*now feels all left out coz no one has written me telling me I am a waste of space coz I am owned*

*cries*

*seeks attention*

chukling....

Peace and Love you beautiful people....

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Blessings
~Angel~

a belle fille violente
Do not scorn, or frown because I walk a different path to you...

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RE: Have you been contacted by........ - 8/12/2005 9:19:57 AM   
ElektraUkM


Posts: 274
Joined: 2/19/2005
Status: offline 		Yes, I've had those emails too.

It might help if the site had an option to say 'not looking' on our profiles.

~ Elektra

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RE: Have you been contacted by........ - 8/12/2005 9:44:43 AM   
mossy


Posts: 185
Joined: 2/21/2005
Status: offline 		O.K. i'm really curious about this person!!!!???? i feel all sad and left out,,,i got no email complaining from a "dom" about all you taken subs,,,,,so obviously!!!! he didn't write to the single ones just the taken ones,,,,,see??? i'm all sad and left out now,,,, dark angel i'll join you in a good cry,,,,and a chuckle too,,,

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RE: Have you been contacted by........ - 8/12/2005 9:45:32 AM   
EmeraldSlave2


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ElektraUkM

Yes, I've had those emails too.

It might help if the site had an option to say 'not looking' on our profiles.

~ Elektra

We do, in that whole "type what you want" section.

But it wouldn't change anything, we still get a few topics a month from people asking why people still email them when their profile clearly says "not looking."


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RE: Have you been contacted by........ - 8/12/2005 9:55:19 AM   
nella


Posts: 1243
Joined: 12/30/2004
From: Norway
Status: offline 		Becouse some men and woman belive they are God`s gift to the oposite (or same) sex and everyone sexualy compatibale whit them should fall on their knees and worship them this werry instant, and if they happen to be whit somone else, they will emidiatly drop it for Mr Rght have just mailed them.

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RE: Have you been contacted by........ - 8/12/2005 9:58:26 PM   
comesoncommand


Posts: 61
Joined: 5/19/2005
Status: offline 		Ahhh...the beauty of the mail control...all the Dommabees can email all they want and i never see the emails...they go straight to the trash.

And i guess it depends on what some "Dominants" view as searching...i'm owned, but i don't seek another Master, but certainly seek another female to join U/us. But i don't think it would matter if "not seeking" was an option for profiles, most of the obnoxious emails come from people who haven't taken the time to read profiles.

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RE: Have you been contacted by........ - 8/13/2005 9:44:19 AM   
atenderheart


Posts: 28
Joined: 5/15/2005
Status: offline 		my profile use to say that i didnt know what if anything i was looking for .. and i kept having Dom's email me asking me what i was looking for... and i just kept thinking cant ya read?????? i said i didnt know if anything lol so at least he read your profile....

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RE: Have you been contacted by........ - 8/13/2005 9:53:52 AM   
ElektraUkM


Posts: 274
Joined: 2/19/2005
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quote:

ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2


quote:

ORIGINAL: ElektraUkM

Yes, I've had those emails too.

It might help if the site had an option to say 'not looking' on our profiles.

~ Elektra

We do, in that whole "type what you want" section.

But it wouldn't change anything, we still get a few topics a month from people asking why people still email them when their profile clearly says "not looking."




What I meant was an option or box to tick/check or uncheck ~ so that people could eliminate profiles from their search more easily if they only wanted to pull up profiles of those not looking.

~ Elektra

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