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Form Letters - 12/15/2005 6:30:33 PM

littleone35

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What is it with Dom's and form letters? I know there is a thread somewhere on the boards about it. Don't Doms keep track of who they mail? I got the exact same mail from the same guy twice. He offered to train me but, i declined his offer twice now if he keeps it up i am going to block him.

Did this ever happen to anyone else?

littleone

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RE: Form Letters - 12/15/2005 6:36:46 PM

ginawithaB

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Yeah...I'm the one that started probably one of several threads on the topic. I've gotten form ltrs or what i call admail, many times. Some keep track or don't do it as often. A few don't. It is thoroughly annoying. But there seems to be nothing to do about. Personally, I think cm should adopt a rating system, maybe similar to ebay's. Maybe if ppl know they're going to be rated in some way, and that ppl don't like being admailed, perhaps they'd think twice. Or, they would simply open up another profile...

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RE: Form Letters - 12/15/2005 6:41:42 PM

sub4hire

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There are certain people who e-mail me numerous times and can't remember a single time.
Block them if you must...they aren't going to change. They are e-mailing so many people on any given day just hoping for a bite they will never remember you.

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Malcolm Forbes

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RE: Form Letters - 12/15/2005 7:38:20 PM

littleone35

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Well i was trying to be polite i guess some people just don't get a hint. What do i need to do bash them over the head with a frying pan? (hmmm not a bad idea)

Laughing,
littleone

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RE: Form Letters - 12/15/2005 7:47:41 PM

IrishMist

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LOL do what I do when I get mail like that...I copy paste it into the return...send it back to them with suggestions on how to improve their pitch.

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RE: Form Letters - 12/15/2005 7:54:33 PM

ginawithaB

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quote:

ORIGINAL: IrishMist

LOL do what I do when I get mail like that...I copy paste it into the return...send it back to them with suggestions on how to improve their pitch.

I like this idea!

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RE: Form Letters - 12/15/2005 7:59:36 PM

Tapestry

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sub4hire

There are certain people who e-mail me numerous times and can't remember a single time.
Block them if you must...they aren't going to change. They are e-mailing so many people on any given day just hoping for a bite they will never remember you.

and omg isn't that just so desperate???
almost pathetic, and certainly not what one would actually look for
a pathetic Dom who can't get a bite...
lol
i mean really...

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RE: Form Letters - 12/15/2005 9:22:08 PM

sub4hire

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quote:

and omg isn't that just so desperate???
almost pathetic, and certainly not what one would actually look for
a pathetic Dom who can't get a bite...
lol
i mean really...

What is pathetic to you and me isn't necessarily pathetic to them. For every what...maybe 100 they e-mail one bites. Makes it all worth while right?

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RE: Form Letters - 12/15/2005 9:47:43 PM

veronicaofML

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dunno

i got em from dommes too

i think it's a people thing

and they bitch about subs n slaves........ha! pot calling the kettle black

some people i think like to bitch just to feel important

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RE: Form Letters - 12/15/2005 9:53:03 PM

happypervert

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I'll paraphrase the content of them:

"Dear sub:

I wanna get laid. Write back if you're stupid enough to take me seriously so we can get together and have you drain my pipes.

Sincerely,

SirDomlyDom"

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RE: Form Letters - 12/16/2005 12:33:07 AM

MadameDahlia

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Lazy people send form letters as letters of introduction in my opinion. I've gotten multiple, but identical emails from several different people each wanting to submit, lick the floor, clean toilets with their hair and make a nuisance of themselves in general.

I find it annoying to have the effort I put into my profile not returned in the form of a decent effort to connect. I feel that it indicates that the person was and/or is much too busy to commit any of his time to present himself in the best manner he can. And if he cannot be bothered to do that I don't feel inclined to offer him any of my time.

Perhaps it's an elitist bias of mine that makes the act of spam mailing so distasteful to me. I am quite picky about the type of person I want to be near - not to mention the type of person I'd want to enter into a relationship with.

I have no desire to spend time with a great number of people. I'm picky... quite possibly judgmental. While some might consider all of that a major character flaw I think of it as knowing what I want, knowing who I am.

So perhaps I find the act of spam mailing anything with breasts and "female" marked as gender just a bit ridiculous because I don't want to wrap my mind around the thought of chasing anything with a pulse and the proper sexual organs.

Neither Dom nor sub are spare parts, easily picked up at DomDepot. Perhaps I simply find it rather disgusting that people can't see the every day person behind the screen name.

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RE: Form Letters - 12/16/2005 2:57:20 AM

sweetpettjenny

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Ive recieved a few as well...just ignore. Remember there are real Dominants and subs on here , as well as posers. It happens.

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RE: Form Letters - 12/16/2005 6:19:34 AM

FTopinMichigan

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MadameDahlia

Lazy people send form letters as letters of introduction in my opinion.

I completely agree, and get them quite often as well!

To the OP, I feel there is no better way to lose the attention of someone than to send a standard form letter that they send to "everyone." (I've gotten them where they leave the previous recipients name in it too)

I'd respond back...."Dear <insert name here> [Note: You do NOT insert their name...you leave it as is, to respond in kind to THEIR form letter], thank you for your cut and paste, standard form letter. You have shown me that you are truly an original man. I can see where you have to use a form letter, since women must be falling all over you, so you don't have the time to write to directly. Please don't take time away from your busy life to contact me again. I wouldn't want you to waste YOUR time contacting me with yet another form letter, that I will only have to delete again."

K

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RE: Form Letters - 12/16/2005 7:23:25 AM

krikket

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If only they were all that easy to read..lol. i'm not sure if i'm gulible or too trusting, given the number of times i've been "taken"..lol

regards,
jimini

quote:

ORIGINAL: happypervert

I'll paraphrase the content of them:

"Dear sub:

I wanna get laid. Write back if you're stupid enough to take me seriously so we can get together and have you drain my pipes.

Sincerely,

SirDomlyDom"

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RE: Form Letters - 12/16/2005 7:59:50 AM

sub4hire

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quote:

Lazy people send form letters as letters of introduction in my opinion. I've gotten multiple, but identical emails from several different people each wanting to submit, lick the floor, clean toilets with their hair and make a nuisance of themselves in general.

So respond and say, send me a photo of you cleaning thd dirty toilet at a swap meet with your tongue and we can talk.

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Malcolm Forbes

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RE: Form Letters - 12/16/2005 8:15:09 AM

Heinz

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Always realise that this is a virtual world.
There are real BDSM ers on this site, but also fakers.
Try to find the real ones.

Heinz

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RE: Form Letters - 12/16/2005 11:36:16 AM

fastlane

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I do what it says....put a dollar in an envelope and send it to five more people.
Soon, I will be rich, won't I?

LOL, form letters are for people without imagination, they probably had someone else write it for them.

Peace, Kevin

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RE: Form Letters - 12/16/2005 1:34:58 PM

nephandi

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Whit theese letters as whit all internet spam, it is cheap so that pepole can send out alot, and if only let us say 1 percent answers, they still get plenty of answers to choose from.

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RE: Form Letters - 12/16/2005 6:23:19 PM

IrishMist

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quote:

So respond and say, send me a photo of you cleaning thd dirty toilet at a swap meet with your tongue and we can talk.

LMAO now that is good.......

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RE: Form Letters - 12/17/2005 4:42:41 PM

littleone35

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Thank you all for your replies i am glad to know i am not alone in that. I really should not let it bother me but it does. Oh well life goes on.

littleone

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