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Forced bi - 11/2/2004 6:53:45 AM

MsGothUk

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can someone help me to understand, if a male is 'into' a forced bi scene..doesnt that make him bi curious before hes even 'forced' into it?

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RE: Forced bi - 11/2/2004 8:09:01 AM

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You might find this thread interesting:

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RE: Forced bi - 11/2/2004 9:30:27 AM

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quote:

if a male is 'into' a forced bi scene..doesnt that make him bi curious before hes even 'forced' into it?

It shouldn't and it depends.

A male submissive may be into a forced bi-scene as a rationalization of his self loathing or denial of his curiosity to being with another male.

A male slave - has no choice. his sexual activities and partners are solely at the discretion of his Mistress/Master.

Interchange the genders and the same applies.

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RE: Forced bi - 11/2/2004 2:43:01 PM

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So again if you are a slave (male or female) you have no say but to do as you are told, where as if you are submissive (male or female) you can say no?

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RE: Forced bi - 11/2/2004 2:50:53 PM

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So again if you are a slave (male or female) you have no say but to do as you are told, where as if you are submissive (male or female) you can say no?

In theory yes. But this may be what separates the men from the boys... so to speak. Or the slaves from the subs.

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RE: Forced bi - 11/2/2004 3:19:46 PM

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blushes,
Simply - YES.
There was a choice and decision to be a slave. Once that was made all other decisions, including those pertaining to this subject, become Master's.

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RE: Forced bi - 11/4/2004 12:56:40 PM

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I've always likened "forced bi" to a form of play rape. In some cases, I have known people who really did not like being with their own gender (i have been told, by those with a sense of smell, that some times a person simply "smells wrong". I suppose that makes sense, considering the perfume industry is three thousand years old), but who enjoyed the humiliation of being forced into a homoerotic embrace by their owner. This is more frequently a male thing than a female thing, but that is likely due to basic cultural imperatives instilled in us. For the most part, however, if a person is willing to admit that they enjoy forced bi, then I would have to call them "closet bi" - there is something about it that they really enjoy and are willing to seek out, even if it is within a larger d/s framework. After all, it only takes finding the right daddy to go from forced bi (at the behest of one's female lover) to play rape, right?

Also, as an after thought, while I am of the opinion that most people are "a little bit bi", most folks are not highly aroused by their own gender. Thus, while it makes a fun scene once in a while, it's not something they would want to persue as part of a relationship. Since the collarme profiles don't have a "90/10 bi" category, "forced bi" becomes an easy switch to toggle to indicate your interest.

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RE: Forced bi - 11/4/2004 1:21:40 PM

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I've often wondered what i'd do, if i was presented with this kind of activity. I'm straight, have absolutely no desire to be with men sexually, however in the throws of submission, pleasing my Domme is paramount to anything else.

So i wonder, if pleasing my Domme meant engaging in a homosexual act, i wonder what i'd actually do at that moment. What trumps what? It's definitely a hard limit for me, but if I was floating on the edge of subspace, and she was pushing my buttons and testing my limits, i'm not sure what i'd do.

Did i mention i'm straight?

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RE: Forced bi - 11/4/2004 1:57:09 PM

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I would assume, just in my opinion that if he wants the forced bi scene. He is a wannabee bi. It is some fantasy that he just can't make himself live out.
Therefore you come in and force him. His fantasy is now fulfilled. Is he then bi? Well did he like it? Since he was fantasizing about it? Perhaps.

So, yes he is bi curious even if he doesn't want to admit it to himself.
Sometimes it is hard for us to admit we are a certain way.

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