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Fisting - 11/11/2004 6:41:15 AM

honeybee462002

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i am sure this has probably been posted before ...but i need to know about when fisitng if sometimes you bleed aferwards or during it when to worry ...Master and i throughly enjoy fisitng but there has been a couple of times that i bleed during it ...it stopped quickly and wasnt gushing but there was blood all over his hand...does anyone know helpful information about this?

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RE: Fisting - 11/11/2004 7:37:58 AM

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If you are experiencing excessive bleeding, or the bleeding doesn't stop after a reasonable time, I would recommend seeking medical attention. (Keep in mind that there will likely be a bit of residual bleeding for a few days, but that bleeding should be limited to something roughly akin to a very, very light menstral cycle.)

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RE: Fisting - 11/11/2004 10:49:52 AM

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I have to say I love being fisted too but I would be alittle concerned if there was bleeding other than linked to something menstrual.
You need to make sure theres no pain when you are being fisted otherwise you might find the bleeding could be related to some damage (however slight) to some internal bits. Gosh Im not a doctor though and this is JMO but I do know fisting is something that needs to be done slowly and carefully and well lubricated.

That said it gives some awesome intense orgasms *smile*

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RE: Fisting - 11/11/2004 11:41:46 AM

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until this slave got fisted she cringed at the thought, but now the orgasms are so much greater and intense leaving her with the feeling of *sorry can't think of the right words* being able to control herself better and yet at the same time letting her whole world slide away.

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RE: Fisting - 11/11/2004 1:10:09 PM

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The one time i was fisted i bled from a tear behind my vagina.

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RE: Fisting - 11/11/2004 1:14:56 PM

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Here are some earlier threads on fisting:

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RE: Fisting - 11/11/2004 3:59:35 PM

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I usually don't bleed after fisting any which way Master does it, but there was an occasion that I bled every time after vaginal fisting. Because it was unusual, after the third happening, I did go see the doctor. It turns out I had an infection, not just an after effect of "too much/rough/etc activity".

I was given Flagyl which if you are ever prescribed, heed the warning of DO NOT MIX WITH ALCOHOL. I took it on New Year's Eve, had a glass of champagne to ring in the new year and I was so sick, you would have thought I downed a case of the stuff.

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RE: Fisting - 11/17/2004 2:36:04 AM

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There is a book called: A Hand in the Bush: The Fine Art of Vaginal Fisting by Deborah Addington. While I doubt you can get this from your local library, you can order it from Barnes & Noble or Borders. If you're too shy for even that route, Amazon carries it.

By the way, I LOVE being fisted. Men laugh about fisting being a submissive act. Then I make them do it till their arms cramp and their fingers are shriveled and pruned. Then they get the whole "it isn't the act that is what matters, it is who controls it". *smiles* I do often bleed after fisting. There are slight vaginal tears if the man's hand is too big or not enough lube is used. Also, if you don't use gloves you risk scrapes on the inside of the vaginal walls.

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RE: Fisting - 11/29/2004 10:07:06 PM

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I would suggest that any bleeding should be undesirable. Bleeding results from tears, bruises, or abrasions. None of which is part of fisting. I would suggest looking into some of the references given by others. To me, it sounds like a faulty technique. The biggest misconception about fisting is that it is a fist that is inserted. It is not, precisely because it greatly increases the risk of causing a tear or abrasion that would lead to bleeding.

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RE: Fisting - 11/30/2004 1:03:40 AM

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I've never bleed from fisting, though I have been on both ends. I do know when I have fisted someone, I have made sure to make sure that I had no jagged nails, rough skin, and that I used lube as needed.

As far as fisting ME goes, I am one of those sloppy wet women. I have had more than one size hand, and did experience internal bruising from one of the first people that fisted me because he more *punched* then fisted.. ironically, he was one of the slowest and most careful anal people I have ever experienced.

Over all, I get really wet and don't need lube, and have even lost conciousness from the intestity of orgasams when fisting is combined with clitorial play, but the closest I have ever come from it (other than it causing me to bleed heavier when done to relieve cramps during a cycle), is a scratch once from a hangnail and Master was ALWAYS careful after that to make sure it wouldn't happen again since he is aware the possible side effects could be VERY serious.

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