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First ever munch - 7/19/2005 5:14:24 PM

HalloweenWhite

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Im thinking of going to My first ever munch next month, I think the problem with access has been sorted out and Ive been wanting to get involved in the lifestyle for a REALLY long time lol. So I have no excuse...except maybe one....I was wondering (This is a stupid question,Im sure but I want to make a good impression so Im asking to make sure I can get it right). Is there any particular way I need to talk to any submissive/slave women I may meet.

I know the obvious ones-dont be rude,aggressive,sarcastic. Dont inturrupt them, Dont start bossing them about lol (duh!). Dont touch them,throw food at them lol. Do be friendly and polite.

But is there anything else. (And dont say be six feet tall and rich lol).

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RE: First ever munch - 7/19/2005 5:15:49 PM

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Just be yourself :) Hope you have a great time!

best regards,
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RE: First ever munch - 7/19/2005 5:28:49 PM

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Be polite and be yourself. Works every time.

Oh, and don't go around introducing yourself as a Dom. lol

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RE: First ever munch - 7/19/2005 6:09:54 PM

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I am really shy, so going to meet a bunch of strangers for the first time would make me nervous beforehand also.

I hope other people who go to munches regularly can help come up with some topics of conversation for you.

I like to try out conversational openers for practice. Otherwise I tend to fall into the rut of talking about the weather.

Maybe try to make up a plan to circulate and meet as many people as possible.

I wish I could be more helpful.

Please post afterwards and tell us how it went :)

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RE: First ever munch - 7/19/2005 6:53:45 PM

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I was thinking about this some more, so wanted to add this.

The first time my Owner met me , the thing that impressed me was that he listened to me .

He also said 'you are the slave girl I have waited my whole life to meet", which melted my heart.

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RE: First ever munch - 7/20/2005 8:30:29 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: feline

Be polite and be yourself. Works every time. Oh, and don't go around introducing yourself as a Dom. lol

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-S- If you saw may picture youd know I dont need to tell people Im a Dominant-I just ooze "Domlyness-nss". lol.

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RE: First ever munch - 7/20/2005 8:47:33 AM

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quote:

I know the obvious ones-dont be rude,aggressive,sarcastic. Dont inturrupt them, Dont start bossing them about lol (duh!). Dont touch them,throw food at them lol. Do be friendly and polite.

sounds like you have the appropriate etiquette figured out!!! good luck!!!

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RE: First ever munch - 7/20/2005 11:10:44 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

quote:

I know the obvious ones-dont be rude,aggressive,sarcastic. Dont inturrupt them, Dont start bossing them about lol (duh!). Dont touch them,throw food at them lol. Do be friendly and polite.

sounds like you have the appropriate etiquette figured out!!! good luck!!!