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Financial Domination - 2/1/2005 5:43:14 PM   
Vachon


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Status: offline 		I have to say...I am really shocked at the number of "Masters" and "Mistresses" here who say they are financial dominants. Why don't they just come out and say "send me your money suckers, you'll never hear from me again". slaves and subs, be very leery of someone who asks you to send them money. In my opinion, they're just here for a quick buck.
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RE: Financial Domination - 2/1/2005 6:04:03 PM   
siamsa24


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Status: offline 		WOOHOO! Let's beat the dead horse some more

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RE: Financial Domination - 2/1/2005 6:05:03 PM   
REDsoon


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Status: offline 		It's a male who is a a financial slave. The reason for this could be found by clicking here.

There is also a huge demand to find out when dominance is a form of begging. This is because many submissive are real and need a Dominant figure to guide them and care about their growth and not money.

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RE: Financial Domination - 2/1/2005 6:47:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: REDsoon

It's a male who is a a financial slave. The reason for this could be found by clicking here.

There is also a huge demand to find out when dominance is a form of begging. This is because many submissive are real and need a Dominant figure to guide them and care about their growth and not money.


There are women who are in financial servitude as well. And, seriously, if you dislike it so much, IGNORE IT AND DON'T CONTACT THE PEOPLE WHO PRACTICE IT.

~sigh~
I appologize for getting into this, but really, if you don't like it, ignore it and don't do it. This is not hard.

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RE: Financial Domination - 2/1/2005 7:32:00 PM   
Paulnz


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Status: offline 		I'm in full agreement with you on this one.

Before submitting to financial domination, make sure the dominant is subjected to full financial scrutiny, and obtain a full investment statement, and their past record of performance. What returns can they guarantee ? hehe.

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RE: Financial Domination - 2/1/2005 8:21:38 PM   
Atavist


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Status: offline 		Perhaps this person is new. Its a reasonable comment.

Obviously you've seen this kind of post before and I'm sure you'll see it again.

Maybe you should follow your own advice: if you don't like it (the post), ignore it.

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RE: Financial Domination - 2/1/2005 10:03:48 PM   
perverseangelic


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ORIGINAL: Atavist

Perhaps this person is new. Its a reasonable comment.

Obviously you've seen this kind of post before and I'm sure you'll see it again.

Maybe you should follow your own advice: if you don't like it (the post), ignore it.


Good point.

I guess this is one of the few topics I've had enough of. So many people say "your kink is not my kink, but it's ok" yet so few practice it. I get tired of it being ok to judge financial domination, but not male domination. Or financial dominantion, but not pony play.'

But you're right. I appologize for being hypocritical, and these are my last words on the subject.

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RE: Financial Domination - 2/6/2005 1:50:38 AM   
ShadeDiva


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quote:

ORIGINAL: REDsoon
It's a male who is a a financial slave. The reason for this could be found by clicking here.

There is also a huge demand to find out when dominance is a form of begging. This is because many submissive are real and need a Dominant figure to guide them and care about their growth and not money.


Read the thread, and posted a query for you on that same thread.

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RE: Financial Domination - 2/6/2005 7:31:51 AM   
nella


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Status: offline 		If somone you did not know walked up to you and said send me all your money you probaly luagh and walk away. Unfortunatly there are so called Dominanta that see the BDSM comunity as a fertile ground to get pepole money.

Ofcourse not all economic servitude is like this, some pepole enyoy it and find somone to enyoy it whit, hureay for them, but i would say be werry careful aboute this, for there are many pepole just after your money out there.

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RE: Financial Domination - 2/6/2005 7:36:59 AM   
onceburned


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Status: offline 		Hi Nella! Welcome back!

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RE: Financial Domination - 2/7/2005 12:05:24 AM   
ShadeDiva


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ORIGINAL: nella
If somone you did not know walked up to you and said send me all your money you probaly luagh and walk away. Unfortunatly there are so called Dominanta that see the BDSM comunity as a fertile ground to get pepole money.

Ofcourse not all economic servitude is like this, some pepole enyoy it and find somone to enyoy it whit, hureay for them, but i would say be werry careful aboute this, for there are many pepole just after your money out there.

To be totally honest - I am probably more aware about the abusive nature that this can take than anyone else on this board or even this site.

That wasn't my point however, I simply wished an answer to my query on that original thread, and thought I'd alert REDsoon that such a query had been posted.

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RE: Financial Domination - 2/7/2005 12:07:07 AM   
ShadeDiva


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Status: offline 		Just realized you might not have meant to direct your comment to me specifically, nella, hehe!

If you weren't directing it at me, just ignore my post in reply to you LOL.

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RE: Financial Domination - 2/7/2005 1:05:41 PM   
BlkTallFullfig


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Status: offline 		Hey there Collarmenewbie Vachon,
My I direct you to a couple of older threads which I'm relatively sure will have all the answers you want, and some you don't...
1) in the Lounge entitled: 'Tribut'=pay=cash=Prostitute
2) in Ask a Mistress : Question about Tribute
Hope al the different perspectives give you some understanding of the topic. M

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RE: Financial Domination - 2/7/2005 1:37:07 PM   
sub4hire


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quote:

I have to say...I am really shocked at the number of "Masters" and "Mistresses" here who say they are financial dominants. Why don't they just come out and say "send me your money suckers, you'll never hear from me again". slaves and subs, be very leery of someone who asks you to send them money. In my opinion, they're just here for a quick buck.


I don't know about anyone else but if you sent me money just because I asked for it here. You'd here from me again and again. It would be more like keep sending me your money sucker...hehe.

You are correct, if only there was some BDSM faq that the world had as required reading when wanting to enter the lifestyle. Alas though there isn't and won't ever be.
So, even though we are tired of hearing about this topic it is still good it remains to be brought to the forefront. New people read the boards everyday. If we enlighten even one person then we have made a difference in someones life today.


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RE: Financial Domination - 2/7/2005 3:44:38 PM   
strongnsubmissiv


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ORIGINAL: sub4hire


So, even though we are tired of hearing about this topic it is still good it remains to be brought to the forefront. New people read the boards everyday. If we enlighten even one person then we have made a difference in someones life today.




Very true Gloria... i actually haven't read many of the older posts, but if i could make distinction here. Financial Domination could mean many things and although i disagree with exploitive behaviour, i find nothing wrong with relenquishing all my pennies over to my partner if we are in a trusting relationship and she desired to control the financial part of our lives.

Sending money to a stranger who posted an ad on collar me? Erm.. that one i'll pass on.

sns

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