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Favorite Forms of...... - 2/21/2006 9:15:45 PM   
truesub4u


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Status: offline 		Lately we've been talking about favorite toys, gadgets, types of bondage... etc...

I was wondering what others favorite form of submission and or Dominace is prefered. Not talking about the mental aspects.... even though those are bound to be the most favorites. I'm talking more about in actual play.. or in scenes.

It doesn't even have to be an actual sex act.

My favorite form of submission... is submitting to Master... but yet no one catches onto the fact that I am... but us. This takes me further into my submission when we get alone.. and I'm already more than half way there... when he wants my total submission for the evening.
This isn't a mental as much as physical form of submission for me... because i'm actually submitting.... before.. during.. and after.. we play.


< Message edited by truesub4u -- 2/21/2006 9:18:09 PM >

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RE: Favorite Forms of...... - 2/21/2006 9:38:04 PM   
Petruchio


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Status: offline 		I love spanking. I love her willingness to submit. I love the trust. I love the affection.

In the sexual arena, I enjoy oral submission, pussy spanks, and even the affection!

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RE: Favorite Forms of...... - 2/21/2006 9:42:19 PM   
proudsub


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Status: offline 		I like being out in public doing something that only the two of us know is going on, like wearing ben wah balls and/or butt plug.

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RE: Favorite Forms of...... - 2/21/2006 9:51:03 PM   
truesub4u


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ORIGINAL: proudsub

I like being out in public doing something that only the two of us know is going on, like wearing ben wah balls and/or butt plug.


Yep... that's what I ment by submitting with no one knowing it. Nipple clamps under my sweater.... no panties.. should he decide to feel under my skirt or dress.... even so much as being the one to go to bar.. get drinks while he sits back... racking the pool game all though i'm not playing... the little stuff... I get to slip further into my sub space... and no ones the wiser but Master...

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RE: Favorite Forms of...... - 2/21/2006 10:10:41 PM   
ownedgirlie


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RE: Favorite Forms of...... - 2/21/2006 10:14:15 PM   
truesub4u


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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

If i told you i'd have to kill you.


CHICKEN!

(breaks out defense force fields)

Ok, I'm ready.. go for it Owned!.... LOL

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RE: Favorite Forms of...... - 2/21/2006 11:24:20 PM   
cravinspankin


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ORIGINAL: proudsub

I like being out in public doing something that only the two of us know is going on, like wearing ben wah balls and/or butt plug.


God i love it when the Master i'm seeing plugs me before we go out.
It's a constant, but invisible to others, reminder of his control over me... his presence within me.

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RE: Favorite Forms of...... - 2/21/2006 11:51:30 PM   
RavenMuse


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Status: offline 		I couldn't nail it down to a single act, because it comes in a hundred little things not one big one. Her submission, those little almost subconsious acts where she is giving herself to me or drawing reasurance from the fact I am there. It doesn't have to be much, just a look or or faint touch but both of us know she is saying quite clearly "I'm yours"

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RE: Favorite Forms of...... - 2/21/2006 11:54:40 PM   
MstrTiger


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Status: offline 		My favorite thing at the moment is CBT, male genitals make such a wonderful toy.

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RE: Favorite Forms of...... - 2/22/2006 12:09:06 AM   
IronBear


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Status: offline 		Having a kajira kneeling, kissing my feet and returning to nadu with the comment "Master" (or Vanashae). The look in here eyes is priceless. (My responce is "Mine!")

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RE: Favorite Forms of...... - 2/22/2006 12:16:50 AM   
la90066


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Status: offline 		I've trained mine to "cum on command" -- I just love the reaction... It still blows her mind to be able to cum without any form of manual stimulation.

She need only hear, "Cum for me..." (even on the phone, in mid-sentence, whenever...), and she orgasms on the spot -- it still surprises her every time.

And of course, I order her to cum when it's not exactly the best place to do so (i.e., at work, while with her friends, at her parents home, when she's in public, etc.)

hee hee hee (Gee... Ain't I a stinker?!!)





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RE: Favorite Forms of...... - 2/22/2006 12:43:36 AM   
MistressSassy66


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Status: offline 		I love how slave bishop walks behind Me...Its like an ivisible leash.
Sometimes W/we shop where she works and she always follows right along.
shes only allowed to speak to her Bosses when W/we are there shopping,her fellow employees get a quick wave,so as not to appear rude.I tell her to get this or that slave girl...most people dont even notice...lol

I love how she bows her head but then looks up timidly...so sweet

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RE: Favorite Forms of...... - 2/22/2006 6:19:25 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		I love being bodily moved. Whether it's grabbing my hand, forcing me against a wall, or just shoving my hips around. It delivers an immediate charge of being an "object in space" and totally at their mercy.

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RE: Favorite Forms of...... - 2/22/2006 7:14:56 AM   
MHOO314


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quote:

ORIGINAL: RavenMuse

I couldn't nail it down to a single act, because it comes in a hundred little things not one big one. Her submission, those little almost subconsious acts where she is giving herself to me or drawing reassurance from the fact I am there. It doesn't have to be much, just a look or or faint touch but both of us know she is saying quite clearly "I'm yours"


I am like RavenMuse ( I am sure the boy will post when he wakes but here is Mine...)--its very subtle things that no one thinks twice about or even sees, but are very powerful indicators in My mind.

He waits to eat or drink until I do, he asks permission to leave My presence whether we are at home together, online or if W/we are out and he needs to attend to the bathroom, get the car etc. He leads the way for Me through crowds (and as tall as he is THAT is a godsend). But these are just examples of the myriad of things he does to please Me, to show Me he is happy in his submission to Me. <smiles>


and thanks for a good question truesub!

Edited to add thanks

< Message edited by MHOO314 -- 2/22/2006 7:18:05 AM >

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RE: Favorite Forms of...... - 2/22/2006 7:31:45 AM   
LadySonelle


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Status: offline 		My favourite is the 'balance moment' when I have just done something (applied a clamp, delivered a swat, slid My fist farther in, etc) and the slave stiffens, freezes, reacts to the almost overwhelming new stimulus... and then relaxes *into* it! It's the physical expression of "Oh, God, I CAN'T.... (deep breath)...Yes I can!" Each little balance point is a RE-submission to My Will and I just adore it!
Every time it happens it reminds Me all over again that this person under My nails, clamps, paddle, heels is giving himself to Me. Ahhhhh!

Lady Sonelle



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RE: Favorite Forms of...... - 2/22/2006 10:21:44 AM   
DestinyCommander


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quote:

ORIGINAL: la90066
And of course, I order her to cum when it's not exactly the best place to do so (i.e., at work, while with her friends, at her parents home, when she's in public, etc.)

hee hee hee (Gee... Ain't I a stinker?!!)


That sounds like my kind of fun!

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RE: Favorite Forms of...... - 2/22/2006 10:35:01 AM   
yun


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadySonelle

It's the physical expression of "Oh, God, I CAN'T.... (deep breath)...Yes I can!"




greetings Ma'am!!

ohh i definitely know what you are talking about there! i think it is just as intense for the submissives side to hit that point. that moment of wondering how crazy the dominant is to think they could take then the realization hits that you can! it's like winning the lotto to hit the wall and be pushed over it. it's a sense of accomplishment, an intense lil tickle of that pleasure spot that you were pushed and succeeded. that reaffirmation of someone's will being expressed over another! definitely delicious! thank you for posting that Ma'am!



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RE: Favorite Forms of...... - 2/22/2006 11:18:31 AM   
Slipstreme


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Status: offline 		On the recieving, most definately flogging. Although, aside from the fact the person topping me feels like they are in control of the situation, I don't feel anything submissive about it. It is an activity we mutually enjoy. But definately, feeling myself being pushed towards the end, the point where the pain is becoming pain, where the intensity is intense. The endorphins hit and rock me a while, and then it is back, reaching the threshold and I begin to peak. A few more sessions and I can see myself get to the point I won't merely peak, but also cum under the whip, and this has so far been all back work. No where near my genetals.

Topping in general, as sadistic as I am masochistic I love it. When I slip into Domspace. The world dissolves and it becomes them and me, nothing more. What is going on encompasses us. I no longer care if sound travels too far and reaches skeptical neighbors, no longer care if there is music drifting in from the background. It all dissolves away and time feels frozen, cares washed away. If we are playing with striking implements, I've noticed my aim become flat near impeccable. I am in control of what they are feeling. The rush is overwhelming. The best I think, is leaving them in subspace, content to ride out the endorphin wave I put them in. If I have to redirect my energy after, I do so on inanimate objects, or sketch furiously in my sketchbook, ever wary and near enough, to make sure my bottom is doing ok. Depending on who it is, there is massive amounts of cuddling after. I have found though that my desire to be sadistic has been getting stronger, especially in Domspace and have found myself having to keep it under check, especially because one of my play partners doesn't care much for pain.

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RE: Favorite Forms of...... - 2/22/2006 2:40:55 PM   
Sub03


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ORIGINAL: IronBear

Having a kajira kneeling, kissing my feet and returning to nadu with the comment "Master" (or Vanashae). The look in here eyes is priceless. (My responce is "Mine!")



can i just say that this sent chills down my spine.....very nice.

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RE: Favorite Forms of...... - 2/22/2006 2:54:14 PM   
SirKenin


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Status: offline 		Mine is service in general. I want to be served, from My Coke to My dinner to My clothes.

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