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Dominant's jealousy - 7/5/2004 11:49:04 AM

iwillserveu

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This is because what is good for the goose is good for the gander.

There have been a few boards about slave’s jealousy, but Domm/inas have remained quiet about their own bouts of jealousy. I’m sure they must happen, for Dom/mes are people too. (Or so I’m told

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So Doms and Domettes feel free to let your emotions show. Don’t keep your feelings repressed.

I’ve read a few boards where some woman was concerned her master was looking for more sub/slaves. Now is the time, Doms and Domettes to share with us your stories of your heartbreak when your sub/slave decided to have two Masters/Mistressses.

I can’t carry this as long as Swift’s Modest Proposal. In case you have not noticed.

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RE: Dominant's jealousy - 7/5/2004 11:53:30 AM

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If my slave wanted to serve another as well as me, she would be gone. A sub/slave cannot serve more than one Master or Mistress at one time. I don't think I've ever heard of that happening. I certainly wouldn't allow it.

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RE: Dominant's jealousy - 7/5/2004 4:37:09 PM

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It's in the Bible, toots. MAN cannot serve two masters. MAN cannot serve God and mammon. HE will either serve the one and hate the other.

OK, it's a stretch. iwill, do you lie awake at night thinking all this up?

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RE: Dominant's jealousy - 7/5/2004 4:52:54 PM

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In Swift's Modest Proposal he completely seriously advises the English that the best way to deal with the Irish problem was by eating them. I'm not sure but I think he was satcastic.

I'm not sure, but maybe the "

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RE: Dominant's jealousy - 7/5/2004 5:09:50 PM

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My first r/l Dom was extremely jealous. I play a lot of games online and he would follow me into rooms to see whom i was playing with, especially if it was a game you play one on one in a private room. A few times he came in with a new nic and tried to get me to flirt with him just to see if i would. When our relationship ended he stalked me online and phoned my home a few times for about 4 months. He apologized later saying he had fallen in love with me and couldn't stand to see me even chatting with anyone else. It's been a year now and i think he has moved on. He has moved out of the country and we do chat as friends online occassionally.

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RE: Dominant's jealousy - 7/5/2004 6:25:09 PM

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In a poly arrangment with multiple dominants, it is indeed possible to serve more than one dominant.

Outside of that I'd see issues, though.

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RE: Dominant's jealousy - 7/5/2004 6:33:22 PM

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Yes Diva, I hadn't thought of that. Good example.

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RE: Dominant's jealousy - 7/5/2004 6:41:52 PM

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disagree E
Ive Owned
slaves All
My life with
other Dominants
both other
family members
as well as other
Dominants in My
Poly Relationships.
I can tell you iwill
that alltho I do not
feel that I have ever
been jealous of either
My posessions nor My
Mates I was very jealous
that My Daughter had a
new baby and I dident
get to have one with her.
.................ya remember
Im going thru that dang
lifechange hormonal ups
and down and one moment
I fell ready to screww anything
with three legs then I stay out
side of arms lenth to anything
male for fear Ill behead em..
in the next moment. LOL
jealousy comes in many forms
and I think its how secure sumone
is in their self and their own securities
as to how they react when another invade
their space. Those whom tend to be self
sufficient and have no issue gaining what
they desire are less likely to be jealous
then those whom feel they will lose sumthing
if there is sumthing to take their places.

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