• Does the voice match the picture? What do I mean by this? Does that deep and throaty voice sound like it could come from the picture of this 110 lb woman? The same goes for men. Certain body types, because of the nature of how sound produces and travels can only produce a certain range of sound. NOTE: There are exceptions to everything, this included. But pay attention.
  
  
• Do they ask for personal, private information, but give none in return? For example a phone number or address? But are unwilling to give the same in return at some point? Now, in the beginning, when just getting to know each other, it simply good common sense for most to limit the amount of information that is given, on both sides. No one needs a stalker in his or her life. BUT after a reasonable period, for things to move forward, you must take the first step, and that usually involves an exchange of phone numbers. AN Exchange. If someone wants your number, and wants to call you whenever, but wont let you call them, ever – it is time to get a bit suspicious – what are they trying to hide? And from whom? It may be simple, but then again it may not.
  
  
• Does the person have a website showing pictures of a spouse and kids, yet they say they are not married? Time to ask some hard questions.
  
  
• Do some things just not add up? Pay attention to your gut instincts – what do they tell you? Do they scream at you when ever you get near this person? If they do then you should probably listen. The unconscious mind can pick up on all sorts of clues that our conscious mind simply doesn’t notice or process.
  
  

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