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Daddys little girl - 3/3/2005 6:12:31 AM

BlouLady

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I promised I wouldn't write anymore about "those problems" and I'm not going to now. We got rid of that problem and had a few long talks. For awile I was sure it was over,that he wouldn't be in a D/s relationship with me. Boy was I wrong. Apperantly after the problem left we still had alot to work out. One of the biggest being my ability to comunicate,the second being my ability to listen . So I finally did both. I can't even tell you how GLAD that I did.

Please don't think I'm to strange, but I asked him if I could call him Daddy. Actually I wrote him in a letter as I was blushing furiously. I was afraid that he would be creeped out by it. To my surprised he smiled and said he would be pleased. I'm not attracted to my father in anyway what so ever but calling my husband Daddy was a huge turn on. As a matter of fact we had awesome, very intense sex with me begging Daddy to fuck me.

I don't think this makes me a sick person, because as i said I'm not attracted to my real father in anyway. However i would sure appreciate some insight from anyone who also enjoys this and some opinions of everyone else. Thanks---Lady

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RE: Daddys little girl - 3/3/2005 6:28:29 AM

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I'd say daddy/daughter or daddy/little girl relationships are the 2nd most common in bdsm type situations. It's very very common, many subs enjoy being protected, they enjoy giving up adult responsibilities, they enjoy having someone else to take care of things, and being a "little girl with a daddy" allows them to do all of that in a very direct way. Many doms enjoy the nurturing aspect as well.

For some people it can be a role play/occasional thing, for some it's a natural dynamic and for some it's a total living situation, in which the sub ALWAYS is the little girl.

Age play is varied and it would be difficult to go through all the different shades that exist and even more of the motivations for it, but if this is how you feel yourself developing, then you can enjoy it.

There is also of course a higher risk factor, when relationships hit trouble it can be a LOT harder to go against "daddy" and be left alone than an adult relationship. BUt as long as everyone is aware of this and can deal with it in an adult way when necessary, it's not a problem.

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RE: Daddys little girl - 3/3/2005 6:52:29 AM

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Thank you for sharing. I wasn't sure when we started in bdsm how to make things run smoother, (you know we've had problems) Then it just kind of fell into place. We both feel good about this. It's not one of us (me) trying to make the other except it,it's both of us truely enjoying the same thing. It's comforting to know it's pretty common.

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RE: Daddys little girl - 3/3/2005 2:29:58 PM

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Here are two earlier threads on Dom Daddys:

Daddy?

Dom Daddy?

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RE: Daddys little girl - 3/3/2005 4:06:54 PM

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BlouLady, I don't think it makes you a sick person either, for I also call my Dom "daddy" now too. We stumbled across this preference quite by accident actually, I was sick and he set me up for the night before he left for work, and when he came home without thinking I told our family dogs that I needed daddy's attention too, and it became a course of discussion with him being very pleased with the idea of it, and for me I will now be able to act out the "naughty" side of me and get the reactions that I want without fear of "Master" thinking I am trying to top from the bottom. And beleive me I can be very mischeivious at times. It meets a need for me to be nutured and taken care of by him and I beleive it meets the nurturing side of him also, for he isn't a Master who is into whipping just to do it without cause, now this will meet my needs for it and give him a cause. Hope this doesn't sound dorky, but it fits us and what we seek.

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RE: Daddys little girl - 3/3/2005 7:46:12 PM

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That's how it is with us! he had a hard being a Dom because he didn't like to hit me for no reason, and I didn't want to top from the bottom.Now like you I can express myself and feel good with fear of letting him down. It has been real good so far.Let's keep our fingers crossed.

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RE: Daddys little girl - 3/3/2005 8:02:12 PM

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Sir has already expressed that He is not into daddy/daughter. However, W/e had an interesting conversation about how He was very parental with me (He actually is with many people). While i will not call him Daddy (on purpose anyway), He and i both know it is the nurturing side of Him that i need as well.

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RE: Daddys little girl - 3/3/2005 8:23:23 PM

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This is actually the type of relationship I am looking for. I find it very erotic to be daddy's little girl. I feel like I belong to someone exclusively this way. I feel the since of security and love that I have a hard time finding, but somehow feel through this type of endearments between the Dom and the sub.

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RE: Daddys little girl - 3/3/2005 8:33:27 PM

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It does give me sense of belonging and security.I feel wonderful,happy and taken care of.Thank you for writing!

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