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Control & humiliation - 7/7/2004 7:39:41 AM

CruelMaster69

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What is more humiliating for a submissive female - being forced to strip or being stripped?

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RE: Control & humiliation - 7/7/2004 9:02:08 AM

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Depends on the circumstances surrounding either action.

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RE: Control & humiliation - 7/7/2004 10:50:32 AM

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What is more humiliating for a Dominant, having their submissive strip or be stripped?

Doesn't matter one way or the other. It depends on the situation. I can be working out in the yard and take off my shirt. Hey, my Dom does it so why can't I?
What is that considered?

I think it depends on how comfortable we are with our bodies. Also where we happen to be. Is it a comfortable area?
Myself, I don't care how I get naked as long as I get naked.

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RE: Control & humiliation - 7/7/2004 12:46:11 PM

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In most cases i think being stripped is more sensual (unless it's rape type play) and being forced to strip is more humiliating but both work for me.

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RE: Control & humiliation - 7/7/2004 12:54:05 PM

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Taking them off myself.. i still have a little control of that. Him taking them off me... and touching me while He's doing it... no control. Being stripped is like being treated as a child.

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RE: Control & humiliation - 7/10/2004 3:35:48 PM

lookingwithin04

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for me personally it's being forced to strip, i actually love it when my clothes are taken off by another, it seems almost romantic to me...kinda like in the movies.

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RE: Control & humiliation - 7/10/2004 6:12:49 PM

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quote:

i actually love it when my clothes are taken off by another, it seems almost romantic to me...kinda like in the movies.

Midear Looking-

Even when he uses a big sharp knife? and laughs insanely ask you scream? Come to think of it, that is kind of romantic....

Hey- you're from Atlanta! is M. Kirk (big bearish guy) still making the scene down there?

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RE: Control & humiliation - 7/11/2004 12:41:02 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: topcat

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i actually love it when my clothes are taken off by another,

Even when he uses a big sharp knife?

Especially when a sharp knife is involved. That's not humiliating,
that is foreplay :-)

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RE: Control & humiliation - 7/11/2004 2:18:13 AM

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Especially when a sharp knife is involved. That's not humiliating,
that is foreplay :-)

Darling-

and with the right girl, incredibly romantic <ws>

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RE: Control & humiliation - 7/11/2004 12:28:21 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: topcat

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Especially when a sharp knife is involved. That's not humiliating,
that is foreplay :-)

and with the right girl, incredibly romantic <ws>

Your tongue down my throat, your knife at my breast, and your other arm wrapped around the back of my head to keep me there... Within the first 3 minutes of you ever laying a hand on me. The memory still brings a hot smile to me face.

Thank you for trusting me.

FYI for the forums: this was at Paddles, NY and in front of witnesses. I'm always amazed when a man is willing to trust me with his reputation to this extent when he first meets me. It takes as much trust for the top as it does for the bottom.

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(happy to buy more disposable clothes to feel the knife)

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RE: Control & humiliation - 7/13/2004 2:32:37 PM

lookingwithin04

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ummmm yeah sure that would be hot...not big on the knife play or anything but it does sound interesting.

as for the local scene i really wouldn't know, Master and i aren't big on the local scene were just into the private ones.

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RE: Control & humiliation - 7/13/2004 8:55:15 PM

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