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Bottom Drop - 1/31/2004 7:47:24 AM

litaTshai

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one was reading the list of lifestyle terms with definitions kindly posted by Someone on another thread. she came across the term, "Bottom Drop"

one is new to the Lifestyle other than from a srict Gorean perspective, however is exploring cautiously.

one believes after her last session she experienced Bottom Drop, and would like to know more about it. how long after the "session" does it tend to set in, how long can it be expected to last, what if anything can be done to prevent it, and how does one deal with it if it does set in?

one thanks All for the advice.

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RE: Bottom Drop - 4/10/2004 7:07:43 AM

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All suplicants and Dominants experiance bottom drop at one time or other and there are sum whom actually get off on this bottom drop feeling.

There is always aftercare when a scene is done and when the scening is intense and the high from the endorphines is extream as these wear off the drop can be physically felt much like a drug addict whom is comming off of their drug induced high, this feeling can be reached by high impact running and bike riding as well and will make most moodie, emotional with spikes of highs sum times with laughing to spikes of low with uncontorlable crying and can cause blurred vision, upset stomachs,thirst, dizziness,clamminess, disassociation and even for sum light halucinations. Its called the * natural High, natural Low!

Its always important for there to be much physical contact between the sceners such as sitting in a comfortable place after scene and hugging and touching and talking out how each feels. This is also a time to be in contact with those whom were in the scening for the next few days because the drop if its to occur usually takes a day or two to be felt and its important that this is also shared between the sceners so when you feel this come on have the one whom was a part of the scene be with you to go thru this as well. It is important to note that many of Us scene with others in a Dungeon type see today gone tomorrow place and it is very important to make sure that if You do have a scene that you have in place a support person or group that is aware that you had been scening and this goes for both Dominant and suplicant. When bottom drop is not addressed and tended it can have lasting emotional and physical negitive effects which would hender the persons next experiance so it is vitally important that you understand the feelings you have and know that they come from your bodys reaction to the experiance you have felt.

BDSM is a hands on experiance and from the beginning to end a understanding that along with what the body deems a negitive stroke must be a equal and oppisite positive stroke to balance the body out and if it does not get this then that makes the drop harder and quicker from the high instead of having positive strokes applied for a gradual decline.
Vitamin B and B12 are important for well being on many levals and I recomend taking it by any sceners whom desire to give their bodys a boast to better protect them in their high and low ride on endorphines.

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RE: Bottom Drop - 4/12/2004 9:46:59 AM

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ORIGINAL: litaTshai

*snippage*

one believes after her last session she experienced Bottom Drop, and would like to know more about it. how long after the "session" does it tend to set in, how long can it be expected to last, what if anything can be done to prevent it, and how does one deal with it if it does set in?

one thanks All for the advice.

respectfully,

lita {Tshai}[/font][/size]

lita {Tshai},

Before I get started here, I need to mention that what I am saying is based on my experience and may or may not reflect the experience of others. I agree with all of the suggestions posted by MistressDread. In particular the need for close contact in a safe and relaxed setting…. A coming down period if you will.

What I have seen is that the more intense (emotionally and/or physically) the scene, the greater the likelihood of experiencing bottom drop.

I recommend having some refreshments on hand for aftercare. And have found foods; even snack foods, with a high carb count to be beneficial. No alcohol. Fruit juice is also a good choice.

The timing seems somewhat unpredictable, but I would advise against planning any kind of activity that requires either physical or mental awareness and/or concentration (such as driving, brain surgery, operating heavy machinery, etc) for a period of at least 16 hours after the scene. This means you should plan for recovery time when deciding when and how you should scene. Making an 8-hour drive, have an intense session then driving another 8 hours home is likely to a recipe for disaster.

I have also personally experienced a bit of an altered mental state myself after an intense session. I always plan on some recovery time for myself as well. I don’t play if I am going to have to drive somewhere in the next few hours.

As always your mileage may vary.

Peace and Light
Terry

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RE: Bottom Drop - 5/9/2004 12:44:25 AM

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Im an adrenilyn addict
thru mental an physical
stimulations.....
Im also a DommeDrop
addict... I like the extream
feeling of both sensations.
I to give My self and not just
those I scene with time to come
off of the natural highs and lows.

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♥A Jaguar in My garage♥ ♥A Mink on My back♥
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