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Being a mothering figure? - 9/8/2004 11:56:55 AM

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I got an e-mail today from some guy laughing. Saying something about we are both on at the same time so we need to "hook up"
Naturally since I have a few moments, I replied back and asked him what was so hysterical. He replied back saying, it is funny we are both on. We definately need to hook up.

I replied back saying that I am on collarme for the boards and teh boards only. My profile clearly states I am here to meet like minded people in the lifestyle to communicate with. Learn other interests...etc.

He replies back telling me once more how we need to hook up.

At this point it is getting rather stupid. So I reply back saying he may have more success if he learned to read what the profile said rather than e-mailing everyone saying he wanted to fuck them.

Anyway, naturally the sub boy then tells me what a rude bitch I am.

Now, I can't help but laugh about that. If I were actually seeking he would have just completely knocked himself out of the running. No patience.

Anyway, anyone else ever feel like they have to chastize people when they really should'nt ever have to feel that way?

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RE: Being a mothering figure? - 9/8/2004 1:21:00 PM

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Anyway, anyone else ever feel like they have to chastize people when they really should'nt ever have to feel that way?

I think we all get some like that. I got one the other day, a so called dom telling me what a great fuck he is and we should hook up LOL. My profile clearly states that i am married to my dom and not looking.

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RE: Being a mothering figure? - 9/9/2004 11:46:43 AM

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Apparently a number of people don't read profiles. Gotten a few emails myself. I always politely reply.

In my case, I like women, am somewhat bi, and rarely turn down a reasonable offer. So its really somewhat hard to get a genuine refusal out of me.
But its quite obvious some of these people haven't read a thing, including the fact that they're perhaps 2000 miles away.

If they don't get it after the polite reply, I figure they're just not going to get it, and don't spend much time explaining further.

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RE: Being a mothering figure? - 9/9/2004 3:10:37 PM

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If they don't get it after the polite reply, I figure they're just not going to get it, and don't spend much time explaining further.

Perhaps but the truly ignorant make me want to know exactly why they are ignorant.
Does that make sense?

Plus it helps me with my headaches that way. The more going on in my head the better.
I was in a car accident in 84, the doc claims I have post traumatic concussion syndrome. Headaches last something like 6 months to 20 years. Hey, any day now. Serious mental stimulation is the single only thing that helps me on a daily basis. Other than that I can pop tylenols with the best of them. The only other alternative I have is addictive medicine and my body is a temple. Not even alcohol goes into it. Let alone to be hooked on anything.
So, I replied. He couldn't keep up but hey..that is'nt my issue.

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RE: Being a mothering figure? - 9/21/2004 5:46:43 AM

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awwwwww but smile I THINK I would enjoy listening to you go onnn and onnn about the excuses......

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