thetammyjo
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If I let myself fully go, the orgasms are better. I have to really trust someone to let go that much but then again I have to trust him/her that much to have sex so I'll get to the orgasm. When just me and my good old vibrator though I notice I am silent. There's a lot going on in my mind but verbally nothing. I think there's a feedback loop -- I make noise, my lover or slave makes noise, that turns me on more so we make more noise, and so forth. I think this plays into a lot of things I do. When I do SM I need reactions or I'll just stop; when I talk to someone I need to hear their voice and see their body language; when I touch someone I need to feel the temp of their skin change, see the color change, taste the heat and moisture -- I need that feedback loop. I think it the same for sex and orgasm. Alone, silence; with someone, noise.
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Love, Peace, Hugs, Kisses, Whips & Chains, TammyJo
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