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Am I really a 'disrespecting faggot christian'? - 6/22/2004 8:59:49 AM   
tampasub


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Status: offline 		Dear A/all

I am very confused. I try my best to be respectfull to A/all, be they Dom(me)/Top or sub/bottom as it is my firm conviction that E/everybody deserves respect until proven otherwise. I am also very sure of my sexual preference, which is most definately heterosexual.

So much to my surprise and dismay on my last login I find the below message in my inbox. I never contacted thsi user so I am at a loss why this message. Therefore I respectfully ask E/everybody for comments, remarks and constructive critisism on my profile. As I most definately do not want to to come over disrespectful or in other ways not show me as I am.



a top huh? thats gay talk. and a suppose a non commercial domme means non-pro...that being the case where you would write that in your first fucking senteance tells me youre a disrespecting faggot christian and you might as well just say that instead of wasting anyones fucking time!


I thank E/everybody in advance for T/their time in reading this message.

Respectfully

tampasub


*** As I asked you last time- DO NOT post other member names in posts of this manner. It is a direct violation of our TOS- I removed the last thread and mailed you about what is acceptable. Since you have failed to adhere to the request consider this a Warning. To continue to break the terms of our TOS can cause you to lose you're account***

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RE: Am I really a 'disrespecting faggot christian'? - 6/22/2004 10:54:51 AM   
sub4hire


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Status: offline 		tampa,
I'd ignore it if I were you. Usually when people spout off like that they just want attention.
I like you, treat people the way they treat me. More often than not that usually means respecting them. The ones who don't, well they don't get respect.

If you respond then you are feeding their little game. Its easiest and best to just back away. Perhaps they will learn and think twice before doing it again?

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RE: Am I really a 'disrespecting faggot christian'? - 6/22/2004 10:59:50 AM   
Sinergy


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Status: offline 		I learned a maxim once for rearing children that I find works for me in all walks of life:

Ignore any behavior you dont want to see repeated.

As a side note, the word "faggot" applied to homosexuals comes from the medieval practice of burning men found guilty of sodomy alive, as the word for "faggot" also means firewood in old English.

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RE: Am I really a 'disrespecting faggot christian'? - 6/22/2004 2:40:48 PM   
Estring


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Status: offline 		Tampa, you shouldn't have told your mother that you were a member of this site.

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RE: Am I really a 'disrespecting faggot christian'? - 6/22/2004 3:37:30 PM   
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RE: Am I really a 'disrespecting faggot christian'? - 6/22/2004 4:02:05 PM   
tampasub


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Status: offline 		Dear Mod3,

I apologize for posting the name. I reposted this as the old one seemed to have vanished. As I had problems reaching collarme.com yesterday when I posted that one I believed the connection problems prevented it from coming up. So I never saw your response to my other post. Also, I cannot access my inbox for the forums so if you used a PM, I haven't received it.

Again, my sincere apologies and I assure you, I will not do this again. Thank you for the warning

Respectfully

tampasub

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*** As I asked you last time- DO NOT post other member names in posts of this manner. It is a direct violation of our TOS- I removed the last thread and mailed you about what is acceptable. Since you have failed to adhere to the request consider this a Warning. To continue to break the terms of our TOS can cause you to lose you're account***

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RE: Am I really a 'disrespecting faggot christian'? - 6/22/2004 6:14:14 PM   
Thanatosian


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Status: offline 		sounds to me like the person who sent that to you is a latent homosexual who is denying the fact and trying to prove how 'manly' he is (always assuming of course that it is a he that sent it) by bashing others and throwing around wild accusations

Ignore it as you would any other spam would be my advice

apply usual caveats here

(added via edit) I am confused now a little bit - looked up your profile and do not see the word top anywhere in it - did you change your profile after receiving this message? if not, then where did this person get the 'top' from that they wrote in the email to you?

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RE: Am I really a 'disrespecting faggot christian'? - 6/22/2004 8:28:28 PM   
tampasub


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Status: offline 		Thank you for your kind words Sir. No, I did not edit my profile at all. I left it exactly as it was when the user in question looked at it. after reading Your post I just checked myself and indeed cannot find usage of the word Top in it. THerefore I am at a loss where this person got the word. Although I just noticed she seems to have 'last post' to this thread but it is not showing up for some reason as Yours is the last post. You may have to ask her for an answer to your question.

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ORIGINAL: Thanatosian


(added via edit) I am confused now a little bit - looked up your profile and do not see the word top anywhere in it - did you change your profile after receiving this message? if not, then where did this person get the 'top' from that they wrote in the email to you?


Respectfully

tampasub

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RE: Am I really a 'disrespecting faggot christian'? - 6/22/2004 8:36:51 PM   
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RE: Am I really a 'disrespecting faggot christian'? - 6/23/2004 10:41:38 AM   
Sundew02


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Status: offline 		tampa, A simple solution for this particular event is to place the Domme on ignore. What I was told when I received an unsolicited, rude email is that I should have turned the email over to the moderators. I had immediately deleted the post so I didn't have it to forward this time. If this ever happens again, I will. I too read your profile, and understood, you were new and wishing to explore, and not wanting a Pro. Simple and well written. Nothing absolutely nothing wrong with your profile. Good luck in your search, I hope you find that for which you seek. Sundew

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RE: Am I really a 'disrespecting faggot christian'? - 6/24/2004 10:37:29 AM   
tampasub


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Status: offline 		I wish to thank A/all for their reply's and support. both here and in private email. It is good to see that the majority of collarme.com is definately comprised of mature, responsible and respectful adults. But like in every family, a few black sheep are lurking about.

I have decided to leave my profile as it is and am hoping a Mistress not to far away from me will enjoy what She reads about me and take this inexperienced novice under Her wing. Introducing me gently nut firmly, helping me extend my soft limits but at the same time respecting my hard limits. A Mistress who will cherish the gift of submission I will present to Her. One who will enjoy and respect me, Who will show me to completety trust and release all control in the knowledge She will have my best interests at heart and will not harm me

Thank Y/you all for taking the time to read and respond to this thread. It is a good feeling for one who has feelings he still is unsure of to find likeminded people.

Respectfully

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Respectfully,
tampasub

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RE: Am I really a 'disrespecting faggot christian'? - 6/25/2004 7:41:11 AM   
Voltare


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Status: offline 		tampa,

As discussed on another thread it takes one click to block a user. It takes less then a second. I would be willing to bet that at any given day you receive over a dozen (if not closer to 50) unsolicited emails. Imagine yourself on a busy street with hundreds of people passing you. It's a good bet that one out of those fifty people is going to be unpleasent, arguementative, or just plain looking for a fight. You don't appear to be ignorant, but rather seemed to have some personal issue - or I don't think you would have taken the time to try to 'expose' the writer. Personal wars on the internet are like land wars in asia - they take lots of time and get nowhere. Perhaps you'll find better use of your time to focus on the more pleasent and intelligent people who visit this site - and you'll find you have no time for the sort of negativity that the 2% spew.

Have a great day!

Stephan

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RE: Am I really a 'disrespecting faggot christian'? - 6/29/2004 5:03:57 PM   
MzDonna


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Status: offline 		tampa,
I viewed your profile and found nothing at all wrong with your wording, I was able to sense that you were trying not to offend anyone, however hun know this .... there is always going to be someone out there you will offend. I have offended my share and will in the future.. its just a part of life ..The only thing I can do is give the common courtesy we are each due and hope that it will be returned to me... as for respect ........... welllllllllll ( here is where I will offend some... ) I dont believe everyone is entitled to respect .. I believe that respect MUST be EARNED . not given merely because someone has a "title"...
be true to yourself .. and the rest will fall into place
MzDonna
ps .. and if you are what it is quoted you are .. and I am a Minister (which I am ) I am truly curious what then that makes me

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