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Add or not to add - 6/11/2005 11:10:07 PM

simeon2001

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i have a wonderful Master whos wife is a Domme and they are talking at this time with a woman who is under their consideration to being co owned by them. Only thing wrong is this woman a year ago was Masters sub and she caused a lot of stress with Master, Maam and I. She told untruths about me, she lied to Masters face. Among other things
So needless to say I have a trust issue with this woman. How can I get past that? Or should I , leaving myself open to her lies again?
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RE: Add or not to add - 6/12/2005 5:43:39 AM

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That's some serious issues. I personally don't try to "get past" those sort of things, liars tend to alienate me permently. But in your situation I would have to ask if you have discussed these things with your Master and Mistress? You need to be completely open and honest with them about how you feel and why. I know that people are sometimes capable of changing, but that takes time and I don't see how anyone could blame you if you didn't trust that person. Trust is hard to win back once it's destroyed. I would say that you should not necessarily "get past" it, but instead try and be open minded about it and give her the chance to prove that she has learned something from her mistakes. But, being honest here... I would keep watching my back the whole time.

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RE: Add or not to add - 6/12/2005 6:39:23 AM

simeon2001

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Thank you jewel and i agree with you. i have said that everyone deserves a second chance and that is what they are giving her. But i can already see she is up to her old tricks. It is up to Master and His wife to see this also before things begin to fall apart once more.
As for me, i know she again has told a untruth that could of hurt my relationship with Master if we were not so strong. So i will sit back and either watch them give her enough rope to hang herself, so to speak. Or they decide her games are not what they are looking for.
Take care
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